Don't Pull Away First
Here's a doozy of a tip from my archive of tips on how to attract women :
Talk with the Hand
There will be certain situations where it can be more difficult to start kino. For example, your waitress is standing while you are sitting down or the girl you like is working behind the bar. You might not have the opportunity to use lots of touching but you can still use this one powerful move.
Despite distance or bad positioning you can always ask for her name and put out your hand.
Never Pull Away First
“can I have my hand back now”
Whenever you shake hands with a woman make it a rule to never be the first one to let go. Always let her pull her hand away first. In other words, hold on for at least as long as she does.
You already do this right? Think again. You will be surprised to learn that it’s actually YOU who is pulling your hand away before she does. Maybe you just want to be polite or after a few seconds you start to get nervous. But being polite doesn’t create attraction. You want her to be a little nervous.
Tension. It’s On.
Holding on to her hand a little longer than she expects creates tension and gets her heart beating. Which is a really good thing if she likes you. (And may get a bad reaction if she doesn’t). Like most things in seduction it’s the person who can better deal with the sexual
tension that wins. For example who is going to be the one to talk first, break eye contact first or pull their hand away first. Sometimes she won’t pull her hand away and you will stay holding hands right off the bat.
Most women have already decided if they like you based on your looks and presence. This bold move just confirms it right away.
Testing Interest
And you are? Something as simple as asking for her name and shaking hands can reveal a lot about a woman’s interest level. Purposely make sure not to give her your name. You do this because you want to see if she asks you for YOUR name. If she doesn’t ask that’s a bad sign. She doesn’t care who you are. Also pay special attention to how long she keeps
holding your hand. Does she hold on for as long as you do or does she pulls her hand away quickly and seem uncomfortable. You can actually feel her trying to pull her hand away.
No Introduction, No Rapport
Here’s another tip for turning more of the women you introduce yourself to into good sets. Investing time and effort into a woman before you have introduced yourself is just silly. Women always give you a lot more trouble before you have introduced yourself. You are already teasing her and being entertain but to her you are still just a nobody. Until you introduce yourself you are a total stranger.
Exchanging names is also a good idea because it builds rapport and locks you in. But don’t worry she won’t be feeling too comfortable. When you combine an extended hold with seductive eye contact there will still be a spark of electricity in the air. The handshake introduction is a great move for building rapport, testing her interest level, creating tension and making it “on” quickly. As such, putting out your hand while asking for her name is a must do in every interaction
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Chris AKA 60 Years of Challenge has been actively coaching the seduction community for over a decade. He is the all-time #1 poster at FastSeduction, the elite forum that was mentioned in Neil Strauss's New York Times Bestselling Book The Game.
He has trained a large number of current seduction coaches and hundreds of regular clients. He is largely responsible for the shift within the seduction community from clownish reality-TV type tactics and wild frat-boy "natural" game antics back to the heart of what seduction really is.
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