Black Love and Relationships

It's safe to say that looking at my past history of attraction to different guys, that they were not interested mostly on the premise that I was not white. Being not just a girl, but a black girl is one of the hardest things to tackle (unfortunately) in life. The idea of trying to be something different seems to scream-- "trying to be white". White they say?! How is trying to simply mold my own interests in music, film, lifestyles,.... anything connotated with a color? This poses a problem... Read Full Story

To whom it may concern If it were to concern you at all I am informing the collective you that after years of being beaten down mentally, physically, emotionally, and sexually I am finally giving up gathering what's left of myself and retreating Black men - It's time to quit you I won't let you leave me unloved and unmarried Single mother of three Fifteen years of you and no wedding ring I won't let you turn me into a lesbian Too traumatized to let a man touch me again I will simply seek... Read Full Story

Today I present a very special edition of Lisa "Mixtape" Turtle, an edition that has been about 5-6 days in the making (ya girl been busy!). I have disturbing and exciting news for you lovely people, your girl, Lisa M. Turtle has a CRUSH. Now I know some of you don't know me like that but trust me when I say it is a rarity for me to develop one these nasty little diseases. (A little backstory) Kelly Kapowski and I hit the club on Saturday (not our usual night but I was celebrating becoming a... Read Full Story

((Disclaimer: This is an unusually long post for me but it is something that is true life and I feel many people (black women especially) can relate.)) As it has been explained, Lisa Turtle has spent a good portion of her life being the only black girl around. This has provided her with a severe lack of close black friends (especially girls) and ridicule for having a tendency to appreciate several things deemed "white" (many of which have appeared in Stuff White People Like). I may have... Read Full Story

Are you good in bed ? If you are a great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Great kisser. Unpredictable and you’re a ‘rare to find’. Your love is one of a kind, silly, fun and sweet. You have your own unique sexiness and you’re the most caring person every single girl wants to meet. And last but not the least, you’re amazing in bed. Well, Who doesnt want to be amazing in bed ? Most Men Loves to be good in their performance in bed and to show how good they are and... Read Full Story