Hair Weaves
Why do SOME Black men have a problem with hair weaves? Well, lets look at this logically from both standpoints. How open are you to seeing both sides of the situation?
I don't know what it is about a woman with long hair but let's face it, both men and women like long hair. Women like to wear it and toss it about and men like to look at it and run their fingers through it. Ah-ha! There's problem one. A man can't run his fingers through a woman's hair with any sense of enjoyment if his fingers get caught in the tracks. It kind of takes away from the moment, don't you think?
Personally, I think men feel duped when they find out a woman is wearing a weave. It's a little like a man like women with large breasts only to find out what when they're getting hot and heavy, she takes off her bra and it was all padding. Kind of ruins his turn on, don't ya think? It's not as if their silicone. I don't know that most men care if boobs are silicone or real. When they're doing their thing it's not as if they can tell. It's not as if they're getting their fingers caught in the permanent stitches when they give a little squeeze.
Now, from a woman's standpoint, most women don't want to be approached solely because of her hair, solely because of the size of her boobs or for any other one reason. We live in a society in which we can look like anything we choose to look like. We can color our hair, lengthen it by weaves or wigs, pump up this or that with surgery or injections. We have the absolute luxury of being able to change what we look like at any given time.
Though I'm sure there are some women out there who get a weave and don't want anyone to know, there are women like me who may do it simply for a change of pace, for a new look or change or routine. I'll tell someone in a minute if it's not my hair. I'm not ashamed or trying to fool anyone. Who I am is not my hair.
The problem is that so many men are turned on by the visual or some fantasy based on a vision that turns them on. No where in that vision or fantasy do they imagine that it's not real.
Let me stress that not all men are like this. I'm just making a point that if a man is so hung up on not liking a hair weave, shouldn't you stop and ask yourself why and how vision based this man is that he can't get past the hair to see the woman? Not many men will want to admit that they are turned on by hair. To them the fact that it may not be real is like being duped out of their fantasy.
And here is a tip that most Black men don't get. Black women aren't the only ones getting hair weaves. Where do you think Black women picked up the technique - from a white woman who wanted to make her hair thicker. Black women didn't invent this and we're not the only ones doing it. We may be doing it more but we're NOT the only ones.
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