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CHAZ BONO IS THE REASON WHY GAYS AND LESBIANS ARE HAVING TROUBLE GETTING AMERICA TO ACCEPT MARRIAGE EQUALITY

By Bonju Patten on | From bonjupatten.com

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Yes it is all Chaz Bono’s fault.

Chaz Bono has never worked a descent job her whole natural born life.

She is a trust fund baby who doesn’t need to work but she has tried her hand at writing a book…about herself as a man.

She has been a reality TV star, the star of a rock band (not that bad in fact) and she has a documentary on her operation, but to me she is a FREAK. Even Perez Hilton is rooting for her to get her new appendage (penis) and remarks on how open she is about the process… this is not open – it’s brain dead.

Chaz Bono is not a male or female – she is an IT – Cousin It and I’m gay and I’m writing this. Chaz Bono is NOT THE FACE OF THE GAY COMMUNITY because if that is true then I am leaving the community. I have no tolerance for this crap. Chaz Bono will not and has never spoken for me and mine. I don’t understand what transsexuals or transgender people are trying to prove here. They have said it themselves “WE ARE NOT A PART OF THE GAY COMMUNITY” SO IF YOU ARE NOT – THEN DON’T FUCKING TALK FOR US.

THAT’S ALL I’M SAYING.

I HAVE ENOUGH PROBLEMS TRYING TO DEFEND MYSELF AGAINST STRAIGHT PEOPLE WHO TRY AND FUCK ME UP. TWO DAYS AGO I ASKED A FRIEND – OR A PERSON WHOM I REGARDED AS A FRIEND – TO WITNESS MY MARRIAGE THIS MONTH TO MY LONG TIME PARTNER MYQUI. She told me that she would. For some reason I texted her today and asked if she were sure and she told me she had to back out of the commitment because she felt that we should have a close friend or a relative to witness our union and that I didn’t really KNOW HER. I rode the train with her and we spoke every morning for 2 years – and we spoke about everything under the sun. I sought her advice out and she did that with me as well. I was very hurt when she wrote this to me and asked her to tell me the truth. She continually lied. Her boyfriend must have flipped out when she told him she was witnessing a gay wedding. I thought he looked handsome like Lee Majors, the actor but I now fear he is a homophobe and that she listened to him. I was shocked that she initially said that she would witness our marriage.

But I understand that she had misgivings but that is her problem and I don’t feel friendly to her any more and why should I reward that kind of remark “You don’t know me” with my friendship. That just sucked you know what I mean? I would never have said that to her. I would have said, “No I don’t do weddings for anyone but thanks for asking. No offense but weddings make me sick especially with straight people” but actually that’s not true and I would have done it for her and not backed out but could you see me being nice to her now?

If she comes up to me next week on the train I just might say “Hello my name is Bonju and I ride the train with you everyday” but she is probably mortified that I responded with (a text) that went like this “I know someone got to you – probably your new boyfriend or your Republican beach friends down at Sandy Hook who sit around in their izods and make sick jokes about gay people. I never should have asked you and I was surprised that you said you would. I have learned my lesson and frankly this is not about love or cuddly feelings it’s about tax issues and legality. I will take the opportunity to marry when given the chance. Being gay immediately puts me at odds with the rest of the world and that’s not fair” = I am sure she read that and shrank about 3 inches.

Anyway, we moved the date to Jan 20 instead of Jan 13 (not a great day to marry if your superstitious) and our friend Kimmie and her boyfriend who has never been to NYC KEVIN are coming down to spend Thursday to Sat with us. It’s going to be so much fun and we love Kimmie. We know that anyone who loves her is okay and we haven’t met Kevin.

Oh and this goes out to Felicia who backed out of our ceremony – we have met Kimmie exactly 5 times in our lives but we kept up with her on FB and she is our friend. In actuality who really knows anyone but I guess you have to have a mutual respect for one another and Felicia did not have respect for me. That is obvious so I guess she thinks I am the same as Chaz Bono. I’m all for live and let live but I’m sick to death of Chaz Bono and her wailing about her non-penis life and now (see below) this whole explanation which screams of TOO MUCH FUCKING INFO – about which type of penis she wants and where she is going to get it – like DO YOU THINK I GIVE A SHIT DUMMY? BUT I WILL MAKE FUN OF THIS…

‘I could get a phalloplasty, which builds the phallus from a donor site on your body, but I’m currently leaning more towards a metoidioplasty. It’s a process that uses what you already have down there, which has grown larger from the testosterone. You end up with a smaller phallus than with the phalloplasty, but it’s fully functional – it gets erect, and the sensation is all there. But, you know, soft it’s probably about three inches, and it grows considerably. I don’t know what the average difference is, but when I’m having sex I probably get three or four times larger. I think Jen wished I wouldn’t get the bottom done, but she understood my need to. You have to understand – for me the life transformation has already happened. Testosterone has definitely changed things. I’ve pretty much lost the ability to have more than one orgasm at a time – but the ones I do have feel more intense. [It's] literally like going through a second puberty. I have more hair on my back than on my chest. I’ve waited my whole life to be able to have body hair – but I never thought I’d have back hair. But what are you going to do, right? I’d like to have the testicular implants, and be able to urinate through it. The doctor I want to use is in Belgrade. It’s going to be a little cheaper there. Probably $25,000, maybe $45,000, I really don’t know. [Cher] She has [helped out financially] in the past when there’s been a problem or issue, but no, I don’t like to take money from my mom more than anybody else does. Being self-supporting is important to me. She’s not 100 percent comfortable. For her, it’s a process.’

This comment from MR. CHAZ BONO made me ill – but I just had to share with you Barb cause why get sick alone? She talks about this last phase of her “operation” like she was out buying a freaking car. I am so sure if you showed this comment to Scott he’d be looking down at his penis and measuring it – I mean – is this person serious…this reads like a person who is out of touch with the entire world and that other twit PEREZ HILTON is rooting her/him on! he’s a sick bitch too!

‘I could get a phalloplasty, which builds the phallus from a donor site on your body, but I’m currently leaning more towards a metoidioplasty. It’s a process that uses what you already have down there, which has grown larger from the testosterone. You end up with a smaller phallus than with the phalloplasty, but it’s fully functional – it gets erect, and the sensation is all there. But, you know, soft it’s probably about three inches, and it grows considerably. I don’t know what the average difference is, but when I’m having sex I probably get three or four times larger. I think Jen wished I wouldn’t get the bottom done, but she understood my need to. You have to understand – for me the life transformation has already happened. Testosterone has definitely changed things. I’ve pretty much lost the ability to have more than one orgasm at a time – but the ones I do have feel more intense. [It's] literally like going through a second puberty. I have more hair on my back than on my chest. I’ve waited my whole life to be able to have body hair – but I never thought I’d have back hair. But what are you going to do, right? I’d like to have the testicular implants, and be able to urinate through it. The doctor I want to use is in Belgrade. It’s going to be a little cheaper there. Probably $25,000, maybe $45,000, I really don’t know. [Cher] She has [helped out financially] in the past when there’s been a problem or issue, but no, I don’t like to take money from my mom more than anybody else does. Being self-supporting is important to me. She’s not 100 percent comfortable. For her, it’s a process.’

CHAZ BONO IS 100 PERCENT A FREAK TO ME. She is not a member of the gay community nor a member of the global community. When she loses weight, looks like a human, and stops thinking only about herself then I believe I will respect her more. I want to believe in what she is doing is good but I can’t help seeing what she is doing as exploitative on her part.

People look at Chaz Bono and see the LBGT community and when HE says he is not gay – then where does that put the rest of us?

Think about that before answering. Chaz Bono has got to go away!

——————— Bonju