Accessing the Love Connection
Dating can be a very interesting or frustrating time in one's life. When we are in a relationship, we always wonder where this relationship will lead to.
Everyone wants some kind of commitment from the other person and we all do things to make sure that we are not wasting our time with a particular person. Well it is important that we understand what we really want from the relationship, this means we have to know who we are, deal with your issues (get yourself whole) do not look to the other person to make you complete.
I write in a blog on "Accessing the Love connection" I intend to deliver some helpful tips that are working in my life and those around me. I went through a very difficult, and painful relationship that forced me to look within myself and find the love that had always been there. Through my healing process I wrote the book " Why am I single Again" Finding Gods purpose for marriage. In this book I write about my personal story and how my childhood was a place I had to visit, to get to the root of the dysfunction in life, relationships in particular. Every relationship brings us closer to ourselves and when we really pay attention to the lessons to be learned we will come out better, and stronger that our next relationship will seem easier to deal with. So do not panic pay attention to what lessons you need to learn. Once you deal with the root issues you are ready to Love again! Take the risk
Here are some tips I want to share with you to find the right Love connection:
I broke them down into four phases;
Phase I Attraction Stage:
1. How eager is he/she to see you? does he call you with 24hrs of meeting? does she respond to your calls, does he ask you on a second date? Is she excited to see you again?
2. How much time do you spend with each other on that fist date, or first phone call? If hours pass and you have not even noticed or think that time is flying then you are getting the connection.
3. How consistent are you in seeing each other? Is he asking to taking you out on dates? or wanting to see you every chance he gets?
4. How interested are you in each others lives?
Phase II Romantic stage:
1. Are you wanting to help each other with projects?
2. Is there verbal and physical affection?
3. Is there physical attraction so strong that you have to make sure that you are not in a compromising place?
4. Communication becomes regular, texts, emails or calls. Can not pass a day without talking.
I will be sharing Phase III and IV in my next blog. Follow this blog to learn more. Also order you book today for inspiration on getting out of a bad relationship and trusting God to heal your wounds. For a personalized collection of books on dating and relationships email me @ divascoach@yahoo.com
I write in a blog on "Accessing the Love connection" I intend to deliver some helpful tips that are working in my life and those around me. I went through a very difficult, and painful relationship that forced me to look within myself and find the love that had always been there. Through my healing process I wrote the book " Why am I single Again" Finding Gods purpose for marriage. In this book I write about my personal story and how my childhood was a place I had to visit, to get to the root of the dysfunction in life, relationships in particular. Every relationship brings us closer to ourselves and when we really pay attention to the lessons to be learned we will come out better, and stronger that our next relationship will seem easier to deal with. So do not panic pay attention to what lessons you need to learn. Once you deal with the root issues you are ready to Love again! Take the risk
Here are some tips I want to share with you to find the right Love connection:
I broke them down into four phases;
Phase I Attraction Stage:
1. How eager is he/she to see you? does he call you with 24hrs of meeting? does she respond to your calls, does he ask you on a second date? Is she excited to see you again?
2. How much time do you spend with each other on that fist date, or first phone call? If hours pass and you have not even noticed or think that time is flying then you are getting the connection.
3. How consistent are you in seeing each other? Is he asking to taking you out on dates? or wanting to see you every chance he gets?
4. How interested are you in each others lives?
Phase II Romantic stage:
1. Are you wanting to help each other with projects?
2. Is there verbal and physical affection?
3. Is there physical attraction so strong that you have to make sure that you are not in a compromising place?
4. Communication becomes regular, texts, emails or calls. Can not pass a day without talking.
I will be sharing Phase III and IV in my next blog. Follow this blog to learn more. Also order you book today for inspiration on getting out of a bad relationship and trusting God to heal your wounds. For a personalized collection of books on dating and relationships email me @ divascoach@yahoo.com
http://www.dating101-divascoach.blogspot.com
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