Dating and Relationships Advice for Women

Are you in a situation where you like a guy, but you cannot determine if he likes you? It could be someone that you just met or a close friend of yours. However, this person has caught your interest and you would like to pursue a relationship to see where it will lead to. The only thing that is holding you back is that you do not know if he feels the same way that you do. To fnd your true soul mate may require much patience and heartache. Neglecting your feelings for another can cause even more frustration. Some days it can feel as ... Read Full Story

Never before in my 20 year career have I seen more 'relapsing back into pathological relationships' than I have lately. "What's wrong with me? Why do I do this?" they ask. My answer is -- I don't know... why DO you do it? "I didn't know what I was doing..." Yes you did. Contact is a choice . "I just thought he changed this time." No you didn't -- you know pathology is permanent. "I was lonely." O.K., loneliness is not fatal -- but these relationships often are. Your loneliness and need does not change his permanent disorder. Nothing has changed except your thoughts ... Read Full Story

Everyone knows what 'coitus interruptus' is -- but what you really need to know is what 'emotional obsession interruptus' is! The last few weeks I have been talking about the inherent traps, pitfalls and perils of the holidays and how people get roped back in to the pathological relationships during 'weak moments' of family fantasizing about normal relationships. I also said that there are no Normal Rockwells, oh, I meant 'Norman' Rockwell's with narcissists and psychopaths. As much as you want to paint the picture of a happy family for a few days a year, that's not what you got. You got a pathological ... Read Full Story

This time I'm sharing a great question from a reader. It's a question I get all the time from women that points out a common misunderstanding women have about men. Men send a ton of silent "signals" that are out there waiting for women to tune into and pick up on. Reader: I'm sorry but I need to ask you a question. I need advice and help. Me and my ex have been together off and on many times, recently we just broke up and now he's dating someone else. (he doesn't know what he wants) But I know he still has very big ... Read Full Story

Learning the differences between our wants list and our needs list can be difficult sometimes. I do believe the Rolling Stones said it best but today, I am going to focus on some of my favorite quotes from Carrie Bradshaw and friends because we can all relate to a little pop culture, at least us girls lol. “Welcome to the age of un-innocence. No one has breakfast at Tiffany’s and no one has affairs to remember.” We are ALL looking for that special passion. Urban dictionary explains that “za za zoo is a phrase to describe that undeniably charismatically sexy something in someone.” So ... Read Full Story