Dating and Relationships Advice for Women

ask yourself, honestly: Does your spouse have unaccountable time? Does your spouse have unaccountable money? Does your spouse have unaccountable moods? Does your spouse's moods depend on whether he/she gets sex or not? Does your spouse have a lack of sexual activity with you? Does your spouse have a history of emotional, physical or sexual abuse or neglect? Does your spouse have a supply of pornography (online or offline)? Have you been told he has a sex addiction (hookers, affairs, porn... Read Full Story

Personality disorders are those permanent disorders that mar a soul. They impair a person's inability to grow to any emotional or spiritual depth, to change and sustain change, and to develop insight about how their behavior effects others. This is the path of pathology -- when disorders so effect a personality that it leaves them impaired so that it permanently disengages their character switch. Personality disorders are often referred to as Character Disorders. No wonder! The problems... Read Full Story

It's official, the guessing is over and so is the first LuvemOrLeavem contest. Kat Wanders, writer of the blog Looking for Love in LA will try Speed Dating in order to find her next date.  Most participants guessed that speed dating would be Kat's choice,  but others thought they were funny guessing truck stops and dark alleys.  The next most popular choice was the supermarket. I like this because you can tell a lot about a guy by what's in his cart, but in an earlier blog Kat revealed... Read Full Story

                                          Last year MSNBC released a list of the top cities for a woman to meet a man. Some of the criteria they used in developing this list were: ratio of single men to single women, philanthropy, and divorce rate. So does the city that you live in really dictate your chances for finding love? Well after the list was released there were all kinds of blogs popping up both to support and condemn the findings of this report. Here are the cities that received... Read Full Story

No wonder so many psychological theories talk about the importance of 'letting go' -- because the opposite of it -- 'holding on' becomes an insane form of reasoning. Somewhere in the midst of the pathological love relationship, your intensity of attachment/ obsession with him begins to feel like a drug. The more he lies/ cheats/ hides what he's doing, the tighter the grip becomes on wanting him/seeking him out/obsessing about him. While you tell yourself you 'should' let go, you hold tighter... Read Full Story