Domestic Violence Awareness

When we are married to a narcissist, we become part of his/her grand delusion. Spouses play the role that the narcissist has written for them. The narcissist is a master manipulator. He knows how to get exactly what he wants from us. He understands what we need in exchange for giving him or her our lives. With a narcissist there is always the excitement and promise of the next grand adventure---a new business, lucrative investments, designing and building a dream home, exotic travel. It is so easy to unconsciously collude with a narcissist. They are very believable actors. The desire for status, power and wealth draw many ... Read Full Story

One would think that with all their womanizing, multiple marriages, affairs and trysts that male narcissists adore women. They may believe they do or convince others but the truth is that they both fear and despise women. Narcissistic relationships are parasitic, based on what you can do for them. Narcissists broker romantic arrangements that benefit them. They are incapable of genuine relationships with expressions of love, tenderness or respect. Some male narcissists change female partners more often than they purchase fancy cars.    Some narcissistic men stay married to a particular woman for decades. That doesn't mean that they love or respect them. Often these women fit the ... Read Full Story

Physicians rotate the time when they are on call. They do not work twenty four hours a day every day. Some surgical specialties require many hours in the operating theatre at a time--10-12 hours or more. That is the exception. Private physicians expect and deserve to have time away from practice to be with their families and enjoy uninterrupted periods of solitude or actiivities with friends. There is neither solitude,  leisure, peace or breathing space when you are married to a narcissist. There are constant demands, frenetic activity, dramatic tirades, spiteful criticisms, and perpetual rancor. The energy field around a narcissist with whom you live ... Read Full Story

Do we need another soft spoken preacher suspiciously falling over young children.   You decide http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f4ffr9n4zE0 Read Full Story

In my book "Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life" I say: "Intuition is a moment of truth that arrives faster than a brain wave or the sharpest flash of lightning. It is an instantaneous illumination..." Intuition tells us the truth.  Everyone has intuition. It is a matter of tuning into this gift and using it. When an intuitive thought or image comes to you, pay attention. Don't override your intuition, especially with regard to narcissists. No matter how smooth or brilliant their act and the enticements that they dazzle in front of your eyes or their empty promises, do not fall for ... Read Full Story