Women are often ‘success-struck’ by the psychopath’s true or surface success. This blinds them to his psychopathy. There are millions of pathological personalities who destroy people’s lives—with or without breaking the law. These people unfortunately never go to prison, so their true criminal nature is never unmasked. They are outwardly successful, and can be seen in high-ranking CEO positions, politics, and prestigious positions in law, medicine, and the military. When trusting women... Read Full Story
There are people of great wealth who make tremendous contributions to our world on every level: economics, technology, medicine, the arts,business, philanthropy. These individuals look far beyond themselves and their personal resources and contribute to the quality of everyone's life. In this post I am focusing on the strong tendency among narcissists to focus their lives upon the attainment of super wealth. This is the ultimate narcissistic supply. With super wealth comes close association... Read Full Story
Narcissists choose spouses, not because they love them but because they can exploit these individuals. Narcissists often marry individuals who suffer from borderline personality disorder. The borderline suffers from a severe fear of abandonment and has problems with psychological boundaries. Borderline disorders are emotionally dependent and willing to serve the narcissist in all of his/her needs and desires. The borderline spouses is coldly exploited by the narcissist and will eventually be... Read Full Story
When we are married to a narcissist, we become part of his/her grand delusion. Spouses play the role that the narcissist has written for them. The narcissist is a master manipulator. He knows how to get exactly what he wants from us. He understands what we need in exchange for giving him or her our lives. With a narcissist there is always the excitement and promise of the next grand adventure---a new business, lucrative investments, designing and building a dream home, exotic travel. It is so... Read Full Story
High level narcissists are particularly favored by today's society and treated like royalty. The narcissist spends his or her life creating grandiose visions that reflect his overriding sense of self importance. You can learn to successfully face the high level narcissist by having a keen awareness and clear comprehension of how he operates. Develop your own genuine, transparent self knowledge that will expand your identity. Then you will view the narcissist as he is---a grandiose, empty... Read Full Story
One would think that with all their womanizing, multiple marriages, affairs and trysts that male narcissists adore women. They may believe they do or convince others but the truth is that they both fear and despise women. Narcissistic relationships are parasitic, based on what you can do for them. Narcissists broker romantic arrangements that benefit them. They are incapable of genuine relationships with expressions of love, tenderness or respect. Some male narcissists change female partners... Read Full Story
Physicians rotate the time when they are on call. They do not work twenty four hours a day every day. Some surgical specialties require many hours in the operating theatre at a time--10-12 hours or more. That is the exception. Private physicians expect and deserve to have time away from practice to be with their families and enjoy uninterrupted periods of solitude or actiivities with friends. There is neither solitude, leisure, peace or breathing space when you are married to a narcissist... Read Full Story
They say everyone has his price. The narcissist understands this one under his skin and applies it skillfully to everyone he knows. What is the ultimate prize that allows a person to capitulate his values and moral compass to have something he or she has always wanted and must have. The prize comes in innumerable forms: financial security, opulent lifestyle, raw power, sexual desirability, the psychological possession of another human being. Some people drive a high hard bargain, some sell... Read Full Story
When a narcissist is shrieking and writhing right before you eyes and you are related to them by marriage or family, it is very unpleasant to say the least. Narcissists frequently burst into fits of rage when their adoring audience is not present to watch the ugly melodrama. It is their spouses, ex-spouses and children who get the brunt of these horrific scenes. To preserve their impeccable image, most narcissists are the opposite in public and considered above reproach---even fine human... Read Full Story
The narcissist arrives and moves into our lives with striking, compelling outer packaging. Often he or she is very attractive, bright, a social standout. The narcissist always has a plan up his sleeve about the people in his life. He asks himself: "What can this person do for me?" "Can I make money or achieve higher status through his contacts?" "What's the best way to get rid of him/her after I've gotten what I want?" "Who is the next person on the horizen who can fulfill my desires... Read Full Story
