Emotional Affair

It wears on you. You can't sleep. You can't concentrate. Slowly, the worry that infidelity has invaded your life absorbs you; every action you take is in effort to find out the truth. You feel like you're going crazy...wonder if you are imagining things. You doubt your gut instinct even though the questions plague you day in and day out. "Is he cheating on me?" "Is she having an affair?" "Am I losing my mind?" When it comes to a cheating spouse, there are traditionally common signs and... Read Full Story

If you have an unfaithful cheating wife, signs that you need to pick up on are all around you!  All that you need to do is to understand what to look for and where to look! Believe it or not, one of the best places to look for any unfaithful cheating wife signs are in her underwear draw!  Yep, it might sound odd and a bit weird, but studies have shown that 7 out of 10 women who begin affairs often buy themselves new underwear and sexy lingerie. When you think about it, it’s pretty... Read Full Story

If it's been bothering you and you're wondering about unfaithful cheating wife signs, first let me ask you the following questions: Has your wife ever seemed bored with you? Have you ever felt your wife disrespects you? Has your wife ever complained that you’re emotionally unavailable or distant? If you answered yes to any of those questions, your wife may be feeling the typical emotions of women who cheat. Before you continue reading, ask yourself, “Why am I here?” If the answer is, I need... Read Full Story

In my last post I promised to describe more of my interview with Anita Rufus of the Anita Rufus Show on KNewsRadio in Palm Springs, California. And I’ll get to that promise in a moment. First I want to share something I just learned – today is Military Spouse Appreciation Day. According to Spousebuzz, President Regan in 1984 declared the Friday before Mother’s Day as Military Spouse Appreciation Day. In a guest blog on www.Spousebuzz.com , Lieutenant General William Caldwell, Commanding... Read Full Story

I have to start off this blog with a funny story (well some may not see it that way but hey we all have a different funny bone). While living in the Puget Sound area we had the privilege of hosting an international visit from a Scandinavian country's military leadership at McChord Air Force Base. The visitors included the spouse of their equivalent to our Chairman of the Joint Chiefs and my military spouse (who had a full time job and had to take time off) acted as her hostess. They watched... Read Full Story

Today is the Friday before Mother's Day which makes it Military Spouse Appreciation Day . It is not something you will find on a Hallmark card or a special display of gifts to buy at your local box-store, but it still leaves me feeling proud of the women that came before me and the women (and men) that will follow in my own footsteps. Here are some great articles written for our spouses about 'Military Spouse Appreciation Day'. Take the time to read them & then give yourself a big pat on the... Read Full Story

How do you recognize the signs of an unfaithful cheating wife or girlfriend? This has been something that men have wondered about for as long as men and women have had relationships, and they will probably face the same problems for as long as there are people walking the earth. There will always be unfaithful and cheating wives and girlfriends - it's a sad but unavoidable fact of life. I know this from personal experience - a girlfriend of mine cheated on me many years ago, which was bad... Read Full Story

Is Your Spouse Being Unfaithful? Are you suspicious? You might have good reason to be. Over seventy percent of men and almost fifty per cent of women admit to being unfaithful at some point in their lives. Ever wonder why women stray?  Why men cheat?   If your spouse is cheating, or you even have suspicion of a cheating spouse, you need to know how to confirm the adultery, or calm your fears. You need hard, undeniable evidence that your spouse is cheating on you, or not. Read Full Story

Monday was my 43rd birthday. It was really nice of Pop Ullom to send me a $25 check and birthday card for my birthday, and it was really nice of my parents to send me a $50 check and birthday card for my birthday. It was kind of weird though...my dad wrote in the card "Have a very nice birthday best try not to get as old as us :-) Love Mom & Dad". What does "best try not to get as old as us" suppose to mean? I have been feeling really drained & depressed, not even wanted to get on the... Read Full Story

Having been a military wife myself, I know first hand that it is not the easiest life to live. So I want to let military spouses know they are appreciated on Military Spouse Appreciation Day, which is May 11th. There is a particular military spouse I would like to acknowledge: my mom. Being married now to a non-military man, I know I come first in his life. I know that no matter what happens, he will be there for me, that he will always "have my back". In military life, the enlisted person... Read Full Story