In the midst of some of the world's most darkest of times, a few seek to bring light. Women have LONG played a significant role in human rights activism, yet historically receive much less attention than their male counter parts. So, today... As bloggers all over the world unite for human rights... I direct your eyes And your attention And your heart to 10 women you may or may not have heard of And to the causes for which each woman either fought with her life Or fights with her life now. 1...Read Full Story
The bill passed by 61-36. We need to get a roll call to see which of our nation’s 36 senators voted against fair pay for women and to find out what their rationale was. They have a lot of explaining to do to their non-burqa wearing female constituents. Some of you ladies out there should expect to see a raise as your employers rush to head off any potential lawsuits. But there’s more to paycheck disparities than just discrimination: The Senate debate on Thursday reflected society’s debate...Read Full Story
I recently attended a Women’s Conference in Paris dedicated to the plight of women in Muslim communities throughout the world. The women's concerns addressed issues both in the home and in their respective communities. One of the highlights of the conference was the recent sentencing of a 19-year-old Saudi female victim of gang rape who initially was ordered to undergo 90 lashes for "being in the car of an unrelated male at the time of the rape," and then shockingly sentenced to 200 lashes...Read Full Story
Dear Ayatollah! And you were saying!! Here are some girls that have done okay!! (CNSNews.com) - Iran's Supreme Leader Ayatollah Ali Khamenei, who rules over a nation where men are allowed to have four permanent wives and as many "temporary" wives as they like, declared in a recent lecture to Iranian students that Iran honors women, while the West abuses them. The ayatollah said one indication of this is that women in Iran are forced to wear the hijab -- clothing that covers much or all of a...Read Full Story
From blogcatalog.com : Join Bloggers Unite For Human Rights On May 15! Thanks to you, May marks the first anniversary of Bloggers Unite and this time we're launching an awareness campaign chosen by BlogCatalog members. On May 15, let's unite for human rights and make a statement that all people are born with basic rights and freedoms - life, liberty, and justice! On May 15th 2008 , let's come together and all blog about Human Rights. There are dozens and dozens of human rights issues that you...Read Full Story
(we have used the male gender, your abuser could be female)('battering' can be extended to verbal, emotional & psychological abuse)Abusive men batter women as a means of power and control, to manipulate, intimidate and rule their intimate partner.Men who abuse their partners come from all races, religions, socioeconomic classes, areas of the world, educational levels and occupations.They often appear charming and attentive to outsiders, and...
by Erin PizzeyFrom her 1998 book "The Emotional Terrorist & The Violence Prone" Those of us working in the field of domestic violence are confronted daily by the difficult task of working with women in problematical families. In my work with family violence, I have come to recognize that there are women involved in emotionally and/or physically violent relationships who express and enact disturbance beyond the expected (and acceptable) scope...
The married couple worked together as partners in their store, but their partnership definitely was not equal. He called her “stupid” in front of employees, blew up when she made mistakes & kept her in the dark about their finances. He also pushed her around a couple of times.But what hurt the woman most were her husband’s savage & belittling words. She became depressed, then frightened by what would happen if her husband ever left her. After...
by Randi Kreger If you've been involved in a high-conflict relationship, you're probably familiar with feelings of shame, guilt, and self-blame. Perhaps you're ruminating about the relationship and feel hopeless and despair. You may even be suicidal.If the stress of a high conflict goes on for many years [such as those with a pathological parent who then goes on to series of pathological partners or coworkers] or is very intense, you may...
CONTROLLING HER TIME: The abuser controls his partner's time by making her wait. He will say he is ready to talk, but will continue doing something else while his partner waits. He will tell her he is ready to go to bed, then make her wait. If she complains of having to wait, he will blame her for "not having enough patience", "I have to wait on you too", or "Do you expect me just to drop everything!"-- thereby blaming her for HIS making her...
Silenced by shame; Fixing broken lives can be frightening, arduousBY: Linda EspenshadeReligious leaders who believe it's their job to save an abusive marriage are taking on a job that gives even professional marriage counselors a headache."It's awfully hard to unscramble an egg," said a Mennonite minister simply. Yet that's precisely what a couple asks for when they bring their beaten marriage to their leaders."I don't think these ministers...
POST-TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDERWhat Is It?Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is classified as a type of anxiety disorder, but is actually much more than that. It is a debilitating disorder that often develops after highly traumatizing events, such as natural disasters, personal assaults and combat. In fact, PTSD was first called "shell shock" or "battle fatigue" because it was noticed primarily in combat veterans. Over the years, however...
Domestic Abuse is in Every Culture and Social Class.
Abuse Is:
Calling bad names or putting someone down
Shouting and cursing
Hitting, slapping and/or pushing
Making threats of any kind
Jealously and suspicion
Keeping someone away from family and friends
Throwing things around the house
Domestic violence is a crime.
It destroys...more
Domestic Abuse is in Every Culture and Social Class. Abuse Is: Calling bad names or putting someone down Shouting and cursing Hitting, slapping and/or pushing Making threats of any kind Jealously and suspicion Keeping someone away from family and friends Throwing things around the house