Those times when i think i was reckless , when i think i have made matters worse, i see them as times as being a tornado in a storm. What has happened has happened, how we behaved in the past is done and we must move on. There is definitely a period of my life which i have often wanted to re write, but now i think of it differently: In times of great distress and confusion we can react unpredictably, we can be in survival mode unable to digest anything that is going on and just doing anything to keep our heads above ...
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Habitually an idealist, wanting perfection. Fleeing from the past, terrified of the future but restless in the present. Wounds are healing, but i dont want the scars. They remind me of the damage done. They are flaws for all to see. BUT..... I remind myself that every scar and imperfection i have is a symbol of our uniqueness. It is a symbol that nature is not interested in perfection, but diversirty and individuality. Nature is adapting, it works to its own intelligence. It's wisdom is far greater than our contemporary intellect. It is the mystical force of our existance that ultimately has the upper ...
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Everyone walks this road differently no one can stand up and say ‘this is what will work for you’. The old saying ‘time is the best healer still stands’ true but I will list 10 steps which may help you take the first step towards healing. 1. Be gentle with yourself: strangely enough a lot of people have no idea how to do this. Be your own best friend it will do you no good to beat yourself up for not being smart enough or for being too trusting or for not doing something sooner. The past is gone and becoming a victim of ...
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