Relationships

I often hear from wives who are very upset with their husband's changing behaviors after his affair. Often, he will be affectionate and sweet one day, only to be cold and distant the next. I heard from a wife who said: "after my husband admitted to an affair, he started sobbing and told me that his biggest fear was losing me and the kids. He begged me to give him a chance to make this up to me. I was hesitant but I don't want to lose my family either. So I told him we would see what happened...Read Full Story

I sometimes hear from people who are trying to either find justification of infidelity or they are trying to look on the bright side. Here are some examples. I might hear from a man who has decided to cheat on his wife. He will say something like: "my wife doesn't meet my needs anymore. My marriage is a joke. We are never intimate and I feel resentful. But I don't want to abandon my kids. So I feel like if I get my needs met somewhere else, this will allow me to tolerate and stay in the...Read Full Story

It's common for me to hear from wives and from mistresses who just don't get why a man who was actively involved in an affair (for which he was willing to risk everything) will suddenly dramatically change his behavior and decide that he now wants his family back. A common comment from the mistress is something like: "this man told me that no woman had ever made him feel like I did. He said eventually, when he could break free, he couldn't wait to be with me forever. When his wife found out...Read Full Story

I sometimes hear from wives who readily admit that the sad state of their marriage is mostly their fault. They know that their choices have really messed things up with their husband and most are willing to try to do whatever is necessary to fix what has been broken. However, some aren't sure if this is going to be enough. I heard from a wife on my save my marriage blog who said, in part: "I have messed things up big time in my marriage. It all started pretty innocently. I didn't have any...Read Full Story

It's common for me to hear from people who are wondering if "backing off" a little bit during the marriage separation is a good idea. Many suspect that it might help their situation some, but they afraid that if they back off, this will allow their spouse to move even further away from them. I heard from a wife who said: "I have been separated from my husband for four months. It has been four months of hell. I miss him so much. I hate looking over at the dinner table and seeing his seat empty...Read Full Story

I often hear from wives who suspect very strongly that their husband wants a divorce. Sometimes, they will sort of tip toe around the issue for as long as they can because they are scared of the answer if they ask about this directly. However, over time, wondering about your husband's true feelings gets very old. Sometimes, you just get to the point where you would rather have an answer, even a negative one, than to continue to wonder. So many wives will eventually get to a point where they...Read Full Story

I often hear from wives who are extremely depressed after their husband has left. Many just can not envision ever feeling happy or secure again. Common comments are something like: "last week, my husband packed his bags and walked out on me. So far, he is avoiding my calls. He ignores my texts. So I'm not able to talk to him and see what he is thinking or feeling. The harsh reality that he might not come back is starting to creep in and this is almost more than I can bear. I just can not ever...Read Full Story

I sometimes hear from both husbands and wives (as well as the faithful spouse and the cheating spouse) who are being criticized for their decision to take time out to do some soul searching after one spouse has cheated or had an affair. An example from a cheating husband is something like: "after my wife found out that I was having an affair, she wanted to immediately go to counseling and save our marriage. She demanded that I stop seeing the other person and commit to a complete lifestyle...Read Full Story

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I cannot say enough how good my Father is! His mercy and kindness endure forever, and his love toward me is endless. I am in awe of all He is doing in my life, and through this blog. Every time I see a new country listed as visiting this blog, or see my kids surrender a little more to Jesus, I am moved. I call these moments God’s little kisses. God delights in his children, and in Zephaniah 3:17 it says God even sings over us.  How amazing is that?  His joy is so full when he looks at...Read Full Story