There’s a real, hot sexiness to being able to bring your woman to a climax by just using your fingers. Consider the fact that her body is – literally – under the command of your fingers and that you are able to WATCH her intently as you bring her to writhing pleasure. Now, isn’t that sexy and hot? Here are some tips on how to finger a girl: Pre-Fingering Foreplay Surprisingly, not all women like to be fingered by their lovers. This can be due to many reasons such as issues about hygiene... Read Full Story

Making a move on someone you’ve known awhile can be frustrating. Where do you start? How do you know when the right time is? What do you say? The question of whether to ask them out is a huge one. Should you or shouldn’t you? Dear Dan and Jennifer,   Hi, I have liked this girl for about a year. Last Friday I told her how I felt and she didn’t say ‘no’; Here’s what she said "David I think of you as a brother, but I don’t see why we can’t get to know each other better, and I’m not trying to... Read Full Story

Wouldn’t it be great if people read your entire profile simply out of respect for the effort you put into it?  The sad truth about profiles Sadly, this is the opposite of reality.  The truth is, people rarely read all the way through your profile before deciding to move on.  The second they get bored, they close it and skip to the next person… usually before the end of the first paragraph!  So, is not reading the whole profile the fault of the reader for not having a great attention span... Read Full Story

Sustainable love, the kind that we use as a compass to keep us connected to a vital, healthy and happy relationships are now being recognized as skills that might just save our species. Hardwired to be social We finally have the scientific equipment to verify what we have always known: our drive to be social, to be connected to each other, is actually hardwired. Our need for connection and drive towards empathy is not a result of environmental influences but rather a function built into the... Read Full Story

Did you know that a man once hospitalized his girlfriend trying to propose to her? It’s true! He slipped the engagement ring into her shot glass and as they toasted to his speech, she swallowed it! Now, she survived, but they did need a trip to the emergency room. In fact, it’s ‘embarrassing yet funny’ proposals like these that remind me of the 5 ways that guys totally DESTROY this precious moment for women by making horrendous mistakes. Please don’t make these... Read Full Story

It is said that the game of love is everyone’s favorite game, and yet even with all the new technologies designed to help us connect, more and more people are opting out of the game, preferring to live alone, rather than to risk another bad relationship outcome.  This preference reflects a deep change in our collective human psyche, for it used to be that what lovers feared most was loneliness.  Now, being caught in a static or unsatisfying relationship is even more troubling.  Wanting to be... Read Full Story

A recent study conducted by the Parents Television Council reveals American television depiction of marriage is getting the short end of the stick compared to sexual imagery describing the "joys" of extra-marital sex, BDSM, swinging, and the like. Such references, according to PTC, outnumber marital sex 3:1. So? What’s Wrong With That? So why is a study like this rubbing me the wrong way? Because this study is nothing short of a scare tactic trying its best to get viewers ashamed of... Read Full Story

With the fast pace of daily life, many people are looking for a more efficient way of doing everything—including dating.  More and more people are turning to the internet as a way of meeting prospective partners.   Though online dating may be helpful, it also comes with its own set of risks.  Follow these tips to protect yourself while seeking out love online. 1. Avoid Free Dating Sites While free sites may save you money, they’ll probably cost you time and can even jeopardize your safety... Read Full Story

I’m not sure where exactly it happened.  But somewhere along the way our culture decided that “dating” was synonymous with “having sex”.  At the very least it’s viewed as such in the narrow minds of enough of the general population to keep tons of self-conscious people all over the fruited plain from dating more than one person at a time. Why we’re dating one person at a time And if that’s the prevailing mindset, the way most of us operate is understandable.  After all, most women are more... Read Full Story

Did you know that the most memorable marriage proposals are also the most creative and unique? Problem is, the more you want to blow her away, the more frustrated and stressed you become by trying to come up with an original idea! Not to worry. Here are 3 ways to get your creativity flowing and come up with your winning proposal idea: 1. FIND THE "PERSONAL" TOUCH Aww… your girlfriend likes restaurants. Well guess what? So does everyone else! You need to dig for those unique and... Read Full Story