When a narcissistic type (most cyberpaths & predators are NARCISSISTIC and/ or SOCIOPATHIC!) launches one of his surprise attacks, a normal person's first reaction is to assume it's a misunderstanding and try to resolve it. That's her first mistake. She does this because she assumes she is dealing with a normal human being, who must have felt offended by something.But a narcissist evades and discourages your attempts to find out why he's mad.Typically he does this with a reply that is a r... Read Full Story

Yet again MORE proof: Stay off all online dating & personals sites. ALL of them are loaded with predators. - FighterCarolin Bush wanted companionship, but all the man she met online wanted was financial gain.And he's still out there on internet dating sites looking for vulnerable women. So the Adrian woman turned to Call 11 for Action problem solver Mika Highsmith hoping to warn others.Bush thought searching Yahoo Personals would be a good idea."Being on the computer, you get to weed out... Read Full Story

Here on EOPC, in both margins, we have quotes from victims of Cyberpaths and professionals dealing with Cyberpaths' victims as well as thoughts on the long term after-effects of their attacks.You may have read them elsewhere, you may not. We think they're important and powerful enough to include here so you can read them in their entirety - FighterFROM VICTIMS:"The potential for damage is overwhelming. Overnight, many lives are turned inside out when it has been revealed that the person that ... Read Full Story

So, at bottom, the nature of the narcissist is the nature of a predator who preys on his own kind. The importance of that fact cannot be overstated. The brain of a predator just does not relate to the living soul of its prey. If you don't believe this, just watch PBS. Watch the behavior, and look into the eyes, of predatory animals while they're making a kill. There's nothing there. They are like machines at that moment. They must be, or they couldn't do it.In other words, Nature has equipped... Read Full Story

some insightful excerpts from this great article - to read the whole thing click here A great guideline for starting to 'understand' your cyberpath. Edited out are statements that are not applicable to online relationships; but if you are in a possibly harmful relationship in real life? Please click on the link and read the entire article! -- Fighter)by Natalie P.Most people have had it happen: at some point in our lives we find ourselves manipulated or "guilted" into doing something we didn'... Read Full Story

Yet more reasons to STAY OFF THE ONLINE DATING SITES! - FighterA world-wide dating website Match.com, is being sued by a New York area man for deceptive marketing practices. New York general litigation attorneys representing the plaintiff accused Match of misleading customers with dating prospects who are not actually, paid members of the Internet dating service.The Brooklyn, NY man claims he was humiliated and disappointed due to unresponsive profiles on Match.com.The plaintiff, Sean McGinn ... Read Full Story

By Stephen T. WatsonIt can be a GPS device implanted under a car’s dashboard, revealing where the victim is at any time.Or a video camera hidden in a home and disguised as a baseball cap or a calculator.Or spyware surreptitiously downloaded onto a computer that provides remote access to e-mail, the user’s schedule and every Web site she visits.Stalkers today don’t have to lurk outside an office or trail a car to keep track of their target’s every move, because technical advances make it easie... Read Full Story

Instead of taking Google for granted, we need to remember that criminals get the same easy access to information we get from a capable and quick search engine.To see what the Internet knows about you, start by going to the Google site or by using the Google toolbar. Next, either type your name in quotations or, for a more refined search, type intext: (intext with a colon) immediately followed by your name in quotes. Now type your address or phone number, and Google may turn up a church or a s... Read Full Story

REVIEW:"I could not put this book down once I began to read it. I found it very informative as to what could happen when you meet someone over the Internet. I just hope that someone can gain insight and knowledge from reading Paulette's book. It is easy to understand and never boring."FROM THE BOOK: "I have met several men over the Internet, as I look for someone interesting, in the hopes of fulfilling my seemingly desperate need for companionship..."FOR MORE INFORMATION ON THIS GREAT BOOK CL... Read Full Story

(While the original article deals with warning for children - we have amended it to read for adults, as well. A link to the original article is below - Fighter)For generations it has been ingrained in us, time-honoured rule: "Don't talk to strangers."But that rule has a new meaning now that people can talk to strangers all over the world via the internet.Talking in chat groups and through e-mail isn't anything like talking over the telephone or meeting someone in person. There is no eye cont... Read Full Story