When I think about sex (what I do a lot ;-), I also think about why most people have anxieties and worries about it? What those top sex worries of men and women are? And… how to stop that and simply enjoy a good time? Because I get asked this so often and hear other people’s sex worries almost every day, I decided to share my thoughts on the subject.In fact, while sex can be a great stress reliever, it can be a stressful time itself. Also, while sex can effectively take your mind off of your ... Read Full Story

There is a quote by Alan Altman:“Women’s sexuality has a lot to do with intimacy. It has a lot to do not so much with foreplay so much as after-play and between play. If after sex he rolls over and starts to snore, that’s not going to stimulate her to want to have sex again the next time.”Also, there’s a sex joke:A man’s advice for women. Her question: What is “afterplay”? His answer: After a man has finished making love, he needs to replenish his manly energy. After-play is simply a list of ... Read Full Story

No man is the perfect lover. No woman either. It means, no one is perfect, and only those who never do anything, never make mistakes. BUT...As I said in my previous post on men’s mistakes in bed, men are not the only guilty ones when it comes to sex mistakes. Of course, although women less likely than men to repeat the same mistakes over and over again, they also do lots of things that can turn a man off in the bedroom. Moreover, women do more mistakes than men. It’s because we women are seen... Read Full Story

Yes, yes, of course, you are not the only guilty ones, dear men. Surely, we women also make many mistakes when it comes to sex and we also do all kinds of things that can turn a man off in the bedroom. But we less likely than men to repeat the same mistakes over and over again ;) So today we are going to talk about the most common mistakes many of you guys make in bed and some hints on what you should do instead.What follows is a list of things many men are probably doing wrong when it comes ... Read Full Story

Delicious, arousing, orgasmic moans. Taking your breath away!.. I’ve been thinking a lot about moaning and groaning while having sex, because I can hear my neighbors having too loud sexy time lately. Well, they are a sweet young couple and just got engaged. I don’t know if they realize that they can be heard, but I think they just don’t care about it. Actually, that’s not a problem for me because, well… they’ve probably heard my passionate noises too. So I am just happy that they are enjoying... Read Full Story

Luckily for us women and contrary to our popular belief that men are uncaring and insensitive towards our sexual needs, there are loads of things men actually want to know about our sexuality. What are women’s turn-ons; what we want in bed; what do we fantasize about; what and where is the g-spot; what we like and don’t like about men… and so on. Very few men are comfortable asking a woman what feels right to her and what she wants sexually. Still, there are a thousand questions men ask women... Read Full Story

Hello, my dear lovely readers!I hope all of you know that I love hearing from you and I deeply appreciate all your insights, posts, e-mails, comments, opinions, suggestions, and of course, your questions. Occasionally, I receive questions and e-mails from my dear readers that bring up good topics that can be addressed for everyone. A reader question, recently posted under this post, gave me the idea for today. I thought it was such an interesting question that it deserved its own post. But fi... Read Full Story

Sex is always an “adventure”. The adventure that is different every time! Of course, we all enjoy making love in the comforts of our homes in our comfortable beds, but sometimes an occasional outdoor session can be equally enjoyable and pleasurable! Sex outdoors is often an extra-spice for a relationship, and it always gets into the “an experience I’ll never forget” “folder” in your brain, because getting frisky outdoors can be some of the greatest sexual memories one can have.Well, I’m feeli... Read Full Story

Parked cars, swimming pools, parks, offices, balconies, wherever the mood strikes… So, how dirty and naughty you are? ;) Have you ever had sex in a public place?I know tons of people who have had it, love it and do it whenever they get the chance. Personally, I’ll be honest and say that I’m really not into having sex in random, public places and it is not high on my long sexual fantasy list. Still, being sexually adventurous, I have had it several times but there was no one around because bei... Read Full Story

There is nothing you can do more for your loved one than to be a considerate and thoughtful lover who knows what to do and what to say before, during and after sex. Appropriate words and phrases can be very powerful and stimulating during sex; words can arouse desire, infuse your lovemaking with passion, and reveal sexual fantasies…In my last week’s post, we have already looked at a variety of awkward comments and other things we all are not supposed to say during intimacy. So, today’s list i... Read Full Story