It’s been on Oprah, so it must be a real concern. The topic: ostensibly heterosexual black men having sex with other men. We’re under the impression that if a white guy or an Asian guy or a Latin guy were to do it, he would just be a bearded gay (like in Far From Heaven). Read Full Story

For example, do maintain profiles on various sites for maximum exposure. Don’t, on the other hand, take it personally if you meet someone for a “running date,” and he sprints away from you before you have the chance to do so yourself (this actually happened to a friend). Read Full Story

Finally, someone has the courage to say it. According to the Russian ‘news site’ Pravda (Russian for ‘truth’), the esteemed physiologist Leonid Kitaev-Smyk is theorizing that most skimpy outfits on women cause a number of ‘male’ problems. Kitaev-Smyk’s theory is that unrequited male arousal is a precursor to a number of maladies. Read Full Story

by Rajul Punjabi This past week has been absolute madness; busy beyond words. The weekend feels almost surreal. My mind’s been focused completely on work, on my writing and on everything other than romance, but as we all know, scheduling romance is utterly futile. So on Tuesday after a particularly full day at work, I hopped the subway to this hotel in Times Square (ugh, as a newly established NYC snob, I hate Times Square) and strolled into the fancy lounge/lobby to wait for this R&B... Read Full Story

Ronaldo (not to be confused with Ronaldinho or Cristiano Ronaldo) got caught in an Eddie Murphy-esque predicament involving 3 crossdressing prostitutes a week or so back. You may know the Brazilian soccer star from his fantastic work as AC Milan’s striker before he hurt himself). At any rate, one of the prostitutes alleges that there was drug-use and sex involved. Ronaldo claims that no such sex or drug use happened and he turned the hookers in to the fuzz when they threatened him with... Read Full Story

Sweet smirking Jesus, according to People, Ryan Reynolds and Scarlett Johansson are engaged… to be married… to each other. Before we get too carried away, this engagement rumor has happened before, so we’re going to slow our roll a little. And before that, we heard that ScarJo was telling Reynolds to take it slow. Hmm. Read Full Story

Do you have a TV in your bedroom?  We do.  It was installed there a few years ago in preparation for my back surgery recovery.  It has stayed there ever since.  Yes, in the face of the experts that rail against it, we are keeping the TV in the bedroom.  We like it there: damn the consequences. Read Full Story

We were just browsing the HuffPo (that’s Huffington Post to you, Bill O’Reilly) and bumped into a random bit of ridiculousness. The Greek island of Lesbos is suing a gay rights group over the use of the term ‘Lesbian.’ Evidently, the people of Lesbos are sick (and tired) of having to explain themselves. “Yes, I’m a Lesbian. Ha-ha, double meaning, can we please behave like adults and get to the vote about financing the new, um, levee, Minister Papadopolis?” Though gay female residents of... Read Full Story

OK. We got the words ‘porno’ and ‘Sundance’ and ‘Isabella Rossellini’ all in the same sentence. Naturally we expected something quite spicy and independent, possibly with a Fellini influence. Ross (from Friends) would probably want to re-redo his list after this (yeah, we’re dorks for knowing that). But it turns out that Isabella Rossellini is just kitted out like Gollum and interpreting the mating rituals of a series of bugs. Oh, it’s green porn. Entomologists, start your boners... Read Full Story

The girls at TheFrisky.com are right on target this morning with “The Mind Of Man: Baggage That Will Blow A Second Date.” Actually, I guess it’s one of the guys at The Frisky. He has perfected the balance of honesty, humor—and totally calling girls on their bad behavior. Case in point, this second-date advice: Read Full Story