What do women want?  They want a man to take them to dinner, listen to their problems, do at least 50% of the housework, rub their shoulders and get them off.  He should be attractive to her, but not so much that he makes her insecure about keeping him.  He should be finacialy stable with adequate prospects for the future.  She wants a realtionship that is stable and reassuring but she wants to be surprised now and then.   She wants to be told that she is beautif... Read Full Story

"Why By the Cow when you can get the milk for free"  WHAT BULLSHIT Let me break this down:  women are cows, men are…dairy farmers,  they want milk.  So we assume that they ONLY reason dairy farmers want cows is because they give milk.  Would they still want the cows if they are giving the milk to someone else?  Is the milk the same from all cows or is there a difference in milk from different cows. I can tell you know.  Not all cows are alike... Read Full Story

For all  you girls out there that think that your prince is going to find you some day.  Give up.  The prince that happens to stumble onto your doorstep is not the one that you want.   You have to make your selection of a husband more carefully than you do choosing a college.  A good husband supports you, lifts you up, makes you part of a team.  A bad husband, can drag you down sap your energy. DO NOT confuse marriage with romantic love.  Romantic love ... Read Full Story

For years I struggled with ADD.  I was misdiagnosed, confused and over prescribed medications that did much more harm than good.  But I finally found a treatment methodology that works.  Excercise and LOTS OF IT.  If I run for 30 minutes at a good pace and lift weights for 30, 90% of my symptoms disappear.  I am not kidding.  I have come to believe that my body overproduces something that makes my mind wander off periodically.  When I excersise I reset my mi... Read Full Story

It is not surprising the sad state of the Spears family.  I fault the mother for pimping her daughter out to the Rat (Disney) and the mighty St. Nick.  Working for the mouse can be a hard life: long hours away from home; brutal dance rehearsals; unrealistic expectations; and being paid only in cheese and money, lots of money. It is hard to imagine a family that knows less about men, marriage, parenthood and life then The Sisters Spears.  It is an unholy alliance, giving your children over to ... Read Full Story

Like everyone I am appaled by Cigna’s refusal to approve a liver transplant for a 17 year old wtih leukimia.  The teen had just had a bone marrow transplant from a sibling and now expereinced liver failure.  The doctors at UCLA in a letter to Cigan said the teen had a 65% chance of survial with the trasplant.  I am sickened by our appauling lack of health care in this country.  Those who are covered have poor care, those who are uncovered are left out in the cold begging for care from c... Read Full Story

This is a message to all you girls out there looking for Mr. Right.  Your Prince Charming.  Your Night in Shining Armour.  STOP.  STOP LOOKING.  STOP DREAMING.  THE FANTASY IS JUST THAT A FANTASY. Let me tell you the truth about how men find wives:  They get to certain age, that varies by location and is heavily influenced by the marriage age of his friends, family and collegues, they look around and say,”you are the one.”   Make no mistake about it men do not think about marriage... Read Full Story

Jamie Lynn Spears of Zoey 101 fame, the Nickelodeon show, and oh yes the 16 year old sister of Britney has confirmed that she is pregnant. Just yesterday Nickelodeon released a teaser press release hinting of a huge cliffhanger in the next season. At the time it was just that Zoey might be leaving the boarding school but I guess this news would top that. Why run from it? I think Nickelodeon should get brave and show the pregnant Spears grappling with the issue. Let her talk about her fears an... Read Full Story

Last night a few friends and I went to dinner at a trendy restaurant. We managed to get a seat on the patio wedged next to another group with a woman that had a voice so loud; people in the next zip code could hear her. We hadn’t even gotten our drinks before this woman, who clearly didn’t realize the volume of her own voice, said, “Let me tell you about the ring!” At first I thought she was talking about getting married, but u... Read Full Story

Let me tell you why you should let your man go to the NUDIE bar, because men need to be men sometimes and do all the things that women remove from them in order to make society work. But sometimes men need to revert, they need to bond with other men in order to feel that they still have, if not ownership, usage rights over their balls. Not all men want to go to NUDIE bars. But I think, if we were to take an honest sample of men, say for example in the health... Read Full Story