I’m a personal development counselor… Firstly, I’m not a psychotherapist or psychologist. Moreover, I don’t even believe in the value of psychotherapy and psychology as it is typically used today. Unfortunately, neither will go away just because I don’t believe in their value [snarky grin]. To be clear, I think the science of the mind is worthwhile study - we are fascinating machines - but I find zero benefit in people seeing a therapist for years, going over ... Read Full Story

Dear Fellow Americans, Oh, how I love you so.  Such indomitable spirits and determination.  We’ve done so much in this country that couldn’t be done elsewhere in the world.  We are always questing, questing, questing… until we’re home for the day, that is.  Then it’s all chips, soda, snack foods, convenience foods, etc. all eaten in front of that ever entertaining source of blue light… the television. I know your life is none of my business.  I know I am n... Read Full Story

Employee Morale Low? I am available to deliver my Breaking Out Of Negativity Workshop at your company location during the business day.  Sessions are about 3 hours long and you can choose morning or afternoon.  If you need to split session attendance due to coverage needs, we can schedule a morning and afternoon session, so half can attend the first and half can attend the second.  Some evening or weekend workshops may be available as well with advance notice.  Need anothe... Read Full Story

We all have things we want to do, that we plan on doing, that we’ll do some day.  You know… when things are better, when things are perfect, when you’re finally divorced, when you’re finally married, after you graduate, on and on. So what is it you’re waiting to do?  And what is it you’re waiting for?  Tell me again… why can’t you do it today? Read Full Story

Many times, especially as we get older, family members and friends sometimes want to argue with us about the way we remember things that happened to us.  There could be six people present for an event and all 6 people will remember it a different way - and herein lies the problem.  This happens because our interpretation of the event is processed through our own personal filter.  We see the event the way we do because of our knowledge, life experience, personal attitude, and a lot of other... Read Full Story

Hello, this is a test post. This is me bow shooting with my brother and my friend, John.  You can’t see John because he’s taking the picture lol. Testing bullets To see if they format Correctly You just never know Read Full Story

One of my favorite movies of all time is the 1996 movie, “Michael” with John Travolta as the archangel, Michael.  It also stars Andie MacDowell, Jean Stapleton, William Hurt and Robert Pastorelli. My favorite part of the movie is the end when you see Michael dancing with Pansy Milbank (Jean Stapleton) who has previously passed away in the movie.  They dance off together in the end when everything works out like it’s supposed to.  Whenever I see that, I’m struck wit... Read Full Story

A creepy looking man in a dark alley, wearing an old, dirty hat and a stained trench coat calls to you as you pass by.  “Psst!  Hey you!  Yeah, YOU!  What’s in your head right now?  You can imagine what’s been in mine to get me here in this position.  Can you spare a happy thought?  A positive juju to get me through the night?” Okay, so like…  that’s probably not going to happen to you EVER lol, but I wanted to use that arresting visual. So, let’s ... Read Full Story

Sometimes we have what appear to be problems.  Sometimes these problems are with the other people in our lives.  In fact, much of our apparent misery through this life is tied to our interactions with the other people.  Sometimes it even seems like interactions with other people can sour everything - our good mood for the day, our meal, our walk, our hopes and our dreams. We may have friends that have betrayed us, lovers that have left us, employers that have exploited us, co-workers that ... Read Full Story

Being a light worker, I get to have some pretty unique conversations with interesting people about things that really matter.  Along this course, I have the privilege of fielding some pressing questions that people have.  Some questions are presented to me over and over and it’s one of them that I’d like to share with you today. Hands down, the question (it’s formed as a statement, but it’s really a question to people - despite how they frame it - because they want ... Read Full Story