How should I prepare for first time masturbating? ANSWER Masturbation Ceremony for Women If you haven’t already done so, take yourself on the Looking At Yourself through the Eyes of a Lover tour. Arrange a loving space for yourself—soft lighting, comfortable pillows, sensuous music, aromatic scents, and beautiful objects. Make sure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. This is very important because getting out of your mind and into your body is a key to opening up t... Read Full Story

Sacred sex goes far beyond the bedroom, helping partners open fully to each other in trust and love through all facets of their relationship. Your relationship itself becomes a vehicle for spiritual growth and personal awareness. As you learn to open to yourself, to your own inner lover, you naturally open to others around you. You begin to understand that surrender does not mean submission or loss of self, but rather a loving expansion to something that is much greater than you are.  Li... Read Full Story

I want to squirt but only ooze.  Is there anything I can do? ANSWER One possibility is that you are ejaculating too frequently for your body to recover fully and prepare for the next one. Experiment with delaying ejaculation for several days, perhaps even a week, to see if this changes things for you. Typically, fewer ejaculations results in more forceful (i.e., squirting) ejaculations. Al Link and Pala Copeland   Sexy Spiritual Relationships         Read Full Story

Me and my girlfriend are really serious for each other. We have been going around from the past 2 years and want to get married. We haven’t had sex yet and we both are virgins. We both want to have sex but sometimes we think we should wait until after we marry. Do you think we can have sex? Is it wrong? And could you please tell me how to arouse my girlfriend to the fullest? And if we plan to have sex how do we have sex can u please guide! ANSWER Your first experience of sexual inte... Read Full Story

My ex and I have decided to give each other another try. It’s been a long time since we broke up. He’s been married/divorced; I have never been married.  I have a 16 year old handicapped daughter. It’s been 2 years since I broke up with her dad. We lived together 9 months and he hurt me real bad. Now he’s my daughter's father and the type who will just show up or call. He wants me back even though he has a girlfriend. I have got where I don’t open the door, ... Read Full Story

I am a 39 years old successful businessman. Four years ago I met a girl and fell deeply in love. Two years ago she got married to another guy through family fixed marriage. Shortly after her marriage, she told me that she still loved me and would like to continue our relationship. She promised that she will get a divorce. We have our secret affairs, and fell more deeply to each other. Until today, 2 years later, she is still married, and still talking about that divorce. I love her very much.... Read Full Story

I have been a practitioner of yoga for quite some time now, the 'heart and crown' approach. The tantric approach seems new to me, but I need to explore it in order to deal with sex. I have developed a good control for not ejaculating, and feeling the power of the afterglow. But now I have a semen build up and its causing aches. You say to let your body absorb it, or let it flow all over the body (I have even heard it going up the spine). But what can I do to spread the sex energy fr... Read Full Story

I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend right after my last period. For the rest of the month I took a home pregnancy test which was negative, but I have been feeling like I’m pregnant because I stay tired, my breasts are sore, I have headaches and faintness sometimes, and a loss of appetite. It’s almost around the time for my next period but I have been feeling like this for 2 ½ weeks.   ANSWER For reliable results from home pregnancy tests you really need to wait a week after y... Read Full Story

I am a married 30 year old woman. I have been with my husband for 8 years, married for 5 years and we have a 5 year old daughter. Our marriage has been on the rocks for about 2 years now. I am a housewife and I have been talking to this man online for over 8 months. He is also married and he has two amazing children. We both went online not hoping to fall in love with one another but just for someone to talk to; someone who can relate and understand one another. We have never met, but I know ... Read Full Story

I had unprotected sex after taking the morning after pill. But he said he didn't cum in me. I took morning the  after pill a week ago and had sex the same day. I started to bleed lightly today very dark  though. What should i do ? I'm worried. Could I be pregnant  or is it common? ANSWER The morning after pill has a high rate of success for preventing pregnancies. Also, the beginning of a period typically would indicate that you are not pregnant. Also, he says he did not cum insid... Read Full Story