Gonna go way of topic here today.

How many here ever met someone and thought they were a fine and wonderful person, only to find later on they are the exact opposite of what they led you to believe?

This just happened to me recently. Ya know you think at the age of 40 I would stop putting so much faith in people. I mean I have met many people who do this and yet for some reason I still take them at their word and face value. Maybe I’m an overly trusting sap, but I jsut can’t seem to stop.

Heck all someone really has to do to win my trust is ask for it the first time. Some cases it even takes me a while to see the reality of them. I mean if they sell me a good line I’ll forgive alot of conflicting behavior, even consider alot of it my fault or mistake. But even the blindest of bats will see the truth sometimes. Finally had enough little things to tell me the truth abut my latest trust mistake.

A guy in a web forum I go to once said in a post,” If a person is nice to you but rude to the waiter, he is not a good person, just a sneaky one.” Well let me tell you all, that is some of the truest but most often forgotten bit of sound advice ever.

I forgot that and didnt see the truth in front of me for almost 2 months with someone and made every excuse I could for that person. Finally in the end I had to realize the truth, and let em go. I hope you can see this quicker from people than I do. Share your thoughts on this folks.