A few days ago a question in my email box: Would you introduce your subscribers to Guy Finley’s “Secrets of Being Unstoppable“? It immediately caught my attention – not the question as such but the name of this work: “The secret of being unstoppable“. Wow. I have hardly ever used the word “unstoppable” in my life – it has a taste to it that I don’t quite identify with yet it’s such a great word. Because I have felt so terribly ... Read Full Story

I’ve been looking forward to this for quite some time: “This” being the day when Al Link and Pala Copeland publish their original Tantra Video Home Study Course at Sexy Spiritual Relationships.   This course will enable you as a couple to experience the journey from “ordinary sex” to ecstatic sex. It will support you in enjoying sex in ways you might not have before, in experiencing a powerful, profound and deep connection, energetical and emotional, and a ... Read Full Story

For a little while now I have been amazing myself with a new relationship . It is new and surprising in all kinds of ways. It is a long story and a story unfolding. Also it is a story that I and Terrence McKee (my new friend and colleague) have started sharing at www.awakening2joy.com. As you can see, this entirely new blog is dedicated to a future live event and/or series of conferences calls titled “Awakening To Oneness: Expanding Through The Relationships Game“. It’s a wa... Read Full Story

This blog could humorously be described as “hundred ways to start the busting loose journey” :-). Just about every article here has some sort of reference to busting loose - simply because it’s been such a radically empowering way to expanded consciousness for me (and countless others, if numbers matter to you). But then, even for the most enthusiastic busting loose enthusiast there comes a time where you have to move on, move beyond this or any other “pre-definedR... Read Full Story

I received this video from Darlene Siddons a few days ago, with an invitation to share it in any way I want. It turned out to be an interesting gift in the way it gave me a sense of “perspective”. It reminded me how I enjoyed affirmations some years ago - it was such a nice feeling, and it sounded true somehow. Even if it wasn’t quite how I experienced my life. For that same reason, there were also times - many times - when I would get kind of annoyed with affirmations, and ... Read Full Story

Are you tired of your spouse - or yourself - reacting to something that you/he/she did way back? Like in “Last summer you went to movies without even asking me if I wanted to go with you. That really hurt!”. Sometimes something apparently small can push a big button - and because it’s just a small thing (or for any other perfect reasons) you decide to swallow the reaction. But then, it doesn’t quite work this way - you can’t get it out of your system, so it comes... Read Full Story

I’m very fond of Twitter - when it’s used with moderation. Twitter is just another way of creating relationships and at least some of what I wrote about creating business relationships on Twitter does apply to other relationships as well. It does of course depend on who is following you on Twitter (or Facebook for that matter): it is just family and friends or does it include “strangers”? Who is it exactly? Are you aware of it? Now it’s not my style to invite you... Read Full Story

I just returned from a mind-blowing, or rather heart-blowing retreat with a bunch of wonderful Busting Loose people (or Phase 2 Players) in likewise beautiful Sedona. It was one of my life’s most wonderful experiences of the spiritual essence of any relationship: namely experiencing the other person as yourself, as another aspect of you, telling [...] Read Full Story

In Robert Scheinfeld’s “busting loose vocabulary” joy, or rather, True Joy, means much more than it usually does. He explains it in detail in his brand new “A Path To True Joy” multimedia introduction. To me, the experience of True Joy was really puzzling at first: All of a sudden, I felt this wonderful joy (all kinds and shades of it), and I was so used to it coming from outside of me, that I spent quite some time looking for its source all over the place! It ... Read Full Story

In Robert Scheinfeld’s “busting loose vocabulary” joy, or rather, True Joy, means much more than it usually does. He explains it in detail in his brand new “A Path To True Joy” multimedia introduction. To me, the experience of True Joy was really puzzling at first: All of a sudden, I felt this wonderful joy (all kinds and shades of it), and I was so used to it coming from outside of me, that I spent quite some time looking for its source all over the place! It ... Read Full Story