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Patience is a virtue, one that I have recently realised that I really do not possess. After spending a year on the ‘Sean rollercoaster of indecision’ it’s like I have adopted a no nonsense approach to the whole concept of dating. I am not sure if this is attractive to the male gender per se but then again, I am not sure how much I care. I just feel like all those casual sayings you hear in reference to dating such as ‘playing hard to get’ and ‘treat them mean to keep them keen’ are only now... Read Full Story

Guys, I have come to another realisation, this time it is about me; I have bad taste in men! Somehow despite the plethora of man folk alive on the planet, I find myself attracted to those who are either complete and utter jackasses OR are much to my chagrin already within the confines of a relationship [and luckily I am not a home wrecker] BUT yet again they all have one thing in common – their sense of humour! Perhaps funny people or specifically funny men are programmed with the ‘bad for... Read Full Story

Recently I had what can only be described as a revelation into the psyche of men, and listen closely girls because what I am about to say may just shock you a tad but I genuinely believe that men are inherently selfish creatures and if IF you happen to find one that displays any semblance of selflessness then you should count yourself as incredibly blessed. I came to this amazing insight after meeting a guy who may not have fit the description of my usual taste in men but I was willing to... Read Full Story

Ok so Sean hasn’t called yet but I did get a call from someone else very unexpected, only this call brought more of a grimace than a smile to my face. Let me explain, several months ago, I was accosted by an extremely persistent guy who stressed the necessity of his owning my number. In an attempt to end the agonising encounter, I reluctantly relinquished the number and parted ways, resolving never to answer said calls and to dodge him should the situation arise. I managed this task quite... Read Full Story

Ok guys, it would appear that I am failing very drastically at my mission. I mentioned previously that the whole tactic of cutting Sean out of my life to remind him just how much he needed me in his could prove to be a very dangerous endeavour and apparently I was right. It has been four full days [today is the fifth] and still I have heard not a word from him; no calls, texts, facebook messages or BBMs!! Correct me if I am wrong but it shouldn’t take this long for someone to miss you right... Read Full Story

Ok guys, it would appear that I am failing very drastically at my mission. I mentioned previously that the whole tactic of cutting Sean out of my life to remind him just how much he needed me in his could prove to be a very dangerous endeavour and apparently I was right. It has been four full days [today is the fifth] and still I have heard not a word from him; no calls, texts, facebook messages or BBMs!! Correct me if I am wrong but it shouldn’t take this long for someone to miss you right... Read Full Story

Last night I had a dream. No, it wasn’t of the Martin Luther King variety but I do believe that in my dream Dr King’s dream came to pass, perhaps not precisely in the way he intended but nonetheless – anyway let me tell you the dream. Ok basically, I was in some sort of financial company in a very remote part of London/England and I was attending a business function of sorts were myself and a couple of other employees were playing pool. Being the newcomer to the firm, I had no real clue who... Read Full Story

A few nights ago, I accompanied my friend back to her family home in what I thought would be a quiet few hours with perhaps a laugh or two, maybe even some dinner. However, when we arrived, my wonderful buddy left me in the company of her mother. Now don’t get me wrong, her mother is the greatest BUT she is also very opinionated [like mother like daughter] and I am always wary of talking to parents without any safety barriers. My worries were soon dispelled after talking with her mother for... Read Full Story

After watching one of my fave shows [gossip girl], I realised that I was completely in love with the characters of Chuck Bass and Blair Waldorf, but sadly I could not drool over Chuck’s clothing choices quite in the same way as Blair’s. After I decided that her character [and wardrobe] were amazing, I decided to look into the actress behind the character and realised that Leighton Meester was equally as fabulous, as were her clothes. She carries of the whole elegant look with an air of... Read Full Story

Ok guys, I am officially on a new mission! You won’t be proud of me because it seems that contrary to my original thoughts, I have not accepted the end of my relationship with Sean and I am aware that makes me quite shameful but there you have it – I am on mission ‘make Sean see the error of his ways’ and my key method is cutting him off! Yes yes I know I have attempted to do this before [and lasted for approximately a week] BUT that was different, I was cutting him off then because I was... Read Full Story