Here's a shortcut to more pleasure Part 2
Do you realize that in most cases your lover WON'T actually tell you what pleases them in the bedroom?
Surprised?
In fact, even if you have the best relationship and connection in the world, chances are your partner STILL won't tell you what they desire.
Weird, huh?
HOWEVER... there's actually a way to find out all the things that please your partner and it's much easier than asking them!
Best of all, if you can grasp this concept, it'll help you to have better, longer and more frequent lovemaking.
In short, it will strengthen your intimate connection.
But first...
Why do partners HIDE their turn-ons from their significant other? Two reasons...
First, it can be embarrassing to bring up.
Look at it from your side: You're probably not super-excited about bringing up issues on your lovemaking either.
Second, they want lovemaking that's adventurous and spontaneous.
Imagine if your partner said, "Honey. Can you kiss me more often? And can you kiss me more on my neck?
I really like that. And maybe we should go a bit slower sometimes? Also, I like changing positions a few times during the session too!"
Romantic?
Adventurous?
Spontaneous?
No.
The biggest problem is people usually drag themselves through life and usually follow the same pattern in the bedroom too.
A "good enough" is "good enough" approach.
If your lovemaking sessions feel like a "set routine," then you know exactly what I'm talking about here.
So have you ever stopped to think about what your partner REALLY wants in the bedroom?
Not what you *think* they want or what you *assume* they want, but what they actually want!
It's the key to satisfying and fulfilling lovemaking.
How would you like a sure-fire way to know exactly what pleases your partner without even asking them?
In fact, after understanding this little insight, they'll think you've become some kind of "magic mind reader!"
Ready?
...
...
Watch how they pleasure YOU.
Yep, that's it.
Here are some examples and what I mean by this:
- Are their kisses soft, passionate, intense?
- Do they kiss your neck too? How?
- Do they stroke your face?
- Or run their hands over your body softly? Firmly?
- Do they stop to gaze into your eyes?
- Do they say sexy or loving things?
Guess what?
They make love to you this way because they assume you would like it the same way they do.
It's often unconsciously, but that's what's going on.
Pretty simple, huh?
And this simplicity is half the problem.
You see, so many people have unsatisfied intimate relationships because they overlook or disqualify simple advice and conclude that it's... "too simple."
But believe me, there's power in simplicity.
Watch what they do. Do what they do.
That's it.
And from their reactions, you'll see how much they enjoy it and which ones they enjoy the most.
The golden book of lovemaking is right under your nose. All you have to do is open your eyes and look for it.
I'll leave you with some general ideas of what men and women want; but remember, this information can NEVER be a substitute for observing your own partner in action.
MANY MEN LOVE: a woman without inhibitions and an adventurous spirit, one who's willing to try new things (within reason of course.)
Here's a great one: Give him fellatio or manually stroke him around 9 or 10 in the morning.
This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day, so he'll be more sexually charged. And for better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all.
He'll enjoy that.
MANY WOMEN LOVE: being loved in creative, romantic and unique ways.
Guys, your lovemaking starts WAY before the bedroom. Do loving things for her and she'll feel much more connected and ready to make love.
What about inside the bedroom? Women are very turned on by passionate kisses and affectionate foreplay, so do lots of that.
But don't stop at these suggestions!
Look at how YOUR partner pleasures you and then give it back to them.
Having said all that...
There are probably only a dozen enjoyable things your partner will reveal to you.
Why? Because chances are they have NEVER tried anything else.
Once you learn how to ignite the most pleasure and passion out of what you already have, you need to continually improve and progress your intimate relationship to higher levels.
If your sexual relationship isn't FLOURISHING, it's WITHERING AWAY... it never stands still.
So the best way to grow your sexual relationship is by introducing new tips, techniques, positions and fun games that you would have never thought of yourself.
Surprised?
In fact, even if you have the best relationship and connection in the world, chances are your partner STILL won't tell you what they desire.
Weird, huh?
HOWEVER... there's actually a way to find out all the things that please your partner and it's much easier than asking them!
Best of all, if you can grasp this concept, it'll help you to have better, longer and more frequent lovemaking.
In short, it will strengthen your intimate connection.
But first...
Why do partners HIDE their turn-ons from their significant other? Two reasons...
First, it can be embarrassing to bring up.
Look at it from your side: You're probably not super-excited about bringing up issues on your lovemaking either.
Second, they want lovemaking that's adventurous and spontaneous.
Imagine if your partner said, "Honey. Can you kiss me more often? And can you kiss me more on my neck?
I really like that. And maybe we should go a bit slower sometimes? Also, I like changing positions a few times during the session too!"
Romantic?
Adventurous?
Spontaneous?
No.
The biggest problem is people usually drag themselves through life and usually follow the same pattern in the bedroom too.
A "good enough" is "good enough" approach.
If your lovemaking sessions feel like a "set routine," then you know exactly what I'm talking about here.
So have you ever stopped to think about what your partner REALLY wants in the bedroom?
Not what you *think* they want or what you *assume* they want, but what they actually want!
It's the key to satisfying and fulfilling lovemaking.
How would you like a sure-fire way to know exactly what pleases your partner without even asking them?
In fact, after understanding this little insight, they'll think you've become some kind of "magic mind reader!"
Ready?
...
...
Watch how they pleasure YOU.
Yep, that's it.
Here are some examples and what I mean by this:
- Are their kisses soft, passionate, intense?
- Do they kiss your neck too? How?
- Do they stroke your face?
- Or run their hands over your body softly? Firmly?
- Do they stop to gaze into your eyes?
- Do they say sexy or loving things?
Guess what?
They make love to you this way because they assume you would like it the same way they do.
It's often unconsciously, but that's what's going on.
Pretty simple, huh?
And this simplicity is half the problem.
You see, so many people have unsatisfied intimate relationships because they overlook or disqualify simple advice and conclude that it's... "too simple."
But believe me, there's power in simplicity.
Watch what they do. Do what they do.
That's it.
And from their reactions, you'll see how much they enjoy it and which ones they enjoy the most.
The golden book of lovemaking is right under your nose. All you have to do is open your eyes and look for it.
I'll leave you with some general ideas of what men and women want; but remember, this information can NEVER be a substitute for observing your own partner in action.
MANY MEN LOVE: a woman without inhibitions and an adventurous spirit, one who's willing to try new things (within reason of course.)
Here's a great one: Give him fellatio or manually stroke him around 9 or 10 in the morning.
This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day, so he'll be more sexually charged. And for better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all.
He'll enjoy that.
MANY WOMEN LOVE: being loved in creative, romantic and unique ways.
Guys, your lovemaking starts WAY before the bedroom. Do loving things for her and she'll feel much more connected and ready to make love.
What about inside the bedroom? Women are very turned on by passionate kisses and affectionate foreplay, so do lots of that.
But don't stop at these suggestions!
Look at how YOUR partner pleasures you and then give it back to them.
Having said all that...
There are probably only a dozen enjoyable things your partner will reveal to you.
Why? Because chances are they have NEVER tried anything else.
Once you learn how to ignite the most pleasure and passion out of what you already have, you need to continually improve and progress your intimate relationship to higher levels.
If your sexual relationship isn't FLOURISHING, it's WITHERING AWAY... it never stands still.
So the best way to grow your sexual relationship is by introducing new tips, techniques, positions and fun games that you would have never thought of yourself.
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