Someone once said “character is the things you do when no one else is looking”. I am not sure about anyone else but speaking for myself my intent in any interaction, situation or event is to be honest and open. I know sounds all new age climb on a pedestal hog was but its more a moral fibre which was embedded in me from a young age. Not that my family were saints quite the contrary they would make Jon and Kate look like the Brady Bunch. Ironically having integrity is not something... Read Full Story

Relationships Someone I knew lost their partner and the thing that stuck with me was when he said “His socks were still where he took them off I didn’t want to shift them because somehow it felt like he was still there.” There is a sense of comfort in a pair of sneakers at the door a pair of socks lying on the floor or the robe hung behind the bedroom door. Images are how we form memories. As a Medium when I see someone who has passed who is in Spirit it is your memory of them I see and when ... Read Full Story

“Waiting for Mr. /Ms Right is like putting a pumpkin in the driveway and waiting for the Good Fairy to turn it into a sports car never going to happen” When you go after Mr. /Ms Right you are so full of expectations no one is ever going to be able to measure up. And here is the interesting thing it is all about them. Will they fit in with my friends, will they be sporty intelligent well read, can they cook do they like dogs and so on. All valid questions I might add however notice how the per... Read Full Story

Time and time again people come up to me and say “thank God I thought I was the only one who didn’t get it!” Its okay you can come out of the New Age closet and admit you could only read 2 pages of the ‘Power of Now’ before your eyes started to glaze over. Or you read the ‘Secret’ and the only thing which manifested was a headache. Its okay if you were meaning to read Dr Phil’s book but you needed something to keep the toilet door open. Really i... Read Full Story

Balance I did a ‘Reading’ (as us Psychics like to call them) the other day and the words that came through for the person got me thinking about balance and what we perceive it to be. The guidance was very clear that What we like to think of as balance is really a juggling act. People talk about having balance in their lives all the time. I can balance work play my spirituality my family but are you really balancing all this or merely juggling everything to fit it in? To Juggle is to manage or... Read Full Story

“It is hard to stay in our adult when confronted our inner child wants to jump up and say “he started it first!” Don’t be afraid to have a voice confrontation is a growth curve for all involved. You cannot live an authentic life if you are always side stepping the issues. You are not going to avoid confrontation but it does not have to be a big drama does not have to end in tears or angry words or hurt feelings -Be willing to be wrong -Be flexible just in case you have to shift your position ... Read Full Story

If Only The words “if only” are for a lot of people why they go to psychics. If only I won lotto If only he would change If only I had a better job If only my sister would listen to me Then when they get to the psychic they are confronted with ‘realities’ and get defensive. Bottomline is reality is what we deal with, if only’s are for those who do not believe they have what it takes to change their life. And here’s a newsflash without that belief nothing is... Read Full Story

“Have a spiritual garage sale throw out that which no longer serves your highest good and replace worn out ideas” People are often reluctant to throw anything out when they move arguing “Oh I might need it one day” but the truth is they are not holding onto the object but the comfort and safety that comes with familiarity. In order to grow into an authentic life of abundance we need to move our spiritual house every now and then. Have a garage sale throw out any outdated beliefs that no longe... Read Full Story

It’s a sad reflection of the world we live in when no one does the little bit extra. Most people have to ask “what’s in it for me?” before offering up their services. People look at me in amazement when I offer without being asked or hold out a helping hand for no other reason than I can. I mean really wouldn’t the world be a better place if “what’s in it for me?” was replaced with “how can I help you!” I know radically thinking, th... Read Full Story

Stop and listen I more than most whould know to stop and listen to what my intuition is telling me. Yesterday for example I kept thinking I must ring Jane and I didn’t pay attention and that night someone rang to say Jane was in hospital. I am not special most people get an Angel whisper and don’t listen to it. Like the day before when I walked pass an impressive slice and core apples thing in the shop. I thought I should buy that then pushed the thought aside and today low and b... Read Full Story