What to do after a reading Don’t try and understand everything in the reading in an hour it simply does not work that way. Read it through take a few things that stand out for you and reflect upon these. Then put the reading away and come back to it in a few days or a week and read it through again, chances are you will see it much differently than you did the first time. If anything said evokes a strong emotional reaction write it down and consider why it makes you feel so strongly maybe the... Read Full Story

Ho Ho Ho happy holidays, Uncle Bob is drunk and dribbling, Mother is reminding father how much better she could have done, your sister is pointing to her own pot bellied male partner suggesting if you took better care of yourself you too could have what she has. The kids are running around wrecking the furniture and the cat is on the table licking the turkey. Okay so maybe a slight exaggeration but you get my drift. Why is it we cringe at the behavior of our families and avoid them all year ... Read Full Story

Me myself and I I really want to be a vet but I don’t know what is stoping me. I really want to learn the piano but I don’t know what is stopping me. I really want to be doing something else but I don’t know what is stopping me. Here is a little hint: Me Myself and I I know it sucks to realize 9 times out of 10 we are the biggest roadblocks to moving forward. We lack that thing called self belief which stops us trusting our own judgment and taking risks. So many people I se... Read Full Story

“On any given day there are ordinary people with no special skills no great talents and not a whole lot of money and changing lives in ways we can only dream of” They are the ones who step not knowing where they will land but trusting the purpose they hold in their hearts. They are the ones whose hearts overflow with compassion and empathy for their fellow humans who need someone to care People often have the thought ‘what can I do’ then after a moments contemplation decide it is too big of a... Read Full Story

Wallpaper I can’t say I have ever dreamed about wallpaper but in case you have this is what it means: If you dream you are wallpapering one or more rooms it may mean there are things in your life you want to change. Wallpaper as a symbol is all about the mask we wear to hide feelings and emotions . It about being challemged to reveal more of ourselves our thoughts emotions and feelings. Dream Interpretation Take a breathe bandage ©2009 I spy with my third eye. All Rights Reserved... Read Full Story

“Go towards the lightness learn how to be joyful how to laugh again at the little things” People with fairy wings are the ones who walk past a puddle in their best suit yet when the voice of the inner child calls out “Go on take your shoes off and splash you know you want too!” they do not ignore it. we can forget we are born with fairy wings we can get so lost in our pain our desperation our struggle to survive that life becomes a gray shadow of seriousness. So put away your copy of War and ... Read Full Story

Someone once said “character is the things you do when no one else is looking”. I am not sure about anyone else but speaking for myself my intent in any interaction, situation or event is to be honest and open. I know sounds all new age climb on a pedestal hog was but its more a moral fibre which was embedded in me from a young age. Not that my family were saints quite the contrary they would make Jon and Kate look like the Brady Bunch. Ironically having integrity is not something... Read Full Story

Gut reactions I don’t know about you but I know there are times when I forget to pay attention to my gut instinct. Yes I know I am a psychic but even psychics can forget to pay attention. Hands up how many of you shove aside your first reaction to things? You get a little niggle a little whisper but rather than pay attention to it you brush it aside. And hands up how many of you later on say to yourself “I knew it I knew it I should have listened to my gut feeling”. Its true... Read Full Story

Relationships Someone I knew lost their partner and the thing that stuck with me was when he said “His socks were still where he took them off I didn’t want to shift them because somehow it felt like he was still there.” There is a sense of comfort in a pair of sneakers at the door a pair of socks lying on the floor or the robe hung behind the bedroom door. Images are how we form memories. As a Medium when I see someone who has passed who is in Spirit it is your memory of them I see and when ... Read Full Story

“Waiting for Mr. /Ms Right is like putting a pumpkin in the driveway and waiting for the Good Fairy to turn it into a sports car never going to happen” When you go after Mr. /Ms Right you are so full of expectations no one is ever going to be able to measure up. And here is the interesting thing it is all about them. Will they fit in with my friends, will they be sporty intelligent well read, can they cook do they like dogs and so on. All valid questions I might add however notice how the per... Read Full Story