Direct Answers Column for the week of June 16, 2008

I?ve been married twice and think I was a good husband.  Shortly after my son was born, my first wife started staying out until the wee hours.  I cared for our two young children while she prowled for men.  She became hostile anytime I objected, and screamed at me in front of our children.  At the urging of her family, I divorced her and now have my children most of the time.