Deadly Dating Patterns are ways of dating that simply do not serve you–habitual, self-sabotaging patterns that do not get you the love you really want.  Three common ones are “The Flame Out,” “Crumbs,” and “Not-Perfect-I’ll Pass.”  In the Flame Out you fall in too deep and too soon with a new hottie–it’s all great…that is until the whole thing goes up in flames and you are all alone again.  In the Crumbs pattern you settle for ... Read Full Story

The census data tells us that only 1% of all marriages in 2008 were cougar marriages, that is, between a woman who was 10-14 years older than her husband—while only 2.6%  of the brides were 6 to 9 years older.  But even though these weddings are rare, the concept of the “the cougar,” an older woman who dates or marries a younger guy, is creating new possibilities in dating. In this Demi-Ashton era, many 40+ women have happily broadened their matches to include younger men. But according to a ... Read Full Story

“Love in 90 Days Bootcamp” Be sure to checkout this short film. Fun and insightful! It’s the first training week (7 webisodes) for a group of six single women who are learning how to find love in 90 days. Can it be done? "Love in 90 Days Bootcamp" Be sure to checkout this short film. Fun and insightful! It’s the first training week (7 webisodes) for a group of six single women who are learning how to find love in 90 days. Can it be done? Read Full Story

Personal Excellence: Four Keys to Love that Lasts “All happy families resemble one another. Each unhappy family is unique in its grief.” ~Tolstoy, Anna Karenina Personal excellence in your love relationship is not achieved by reading couples selfhelp books or dumping the problem partner you’re with and going on to the next grass-is-greener pasture to find the One. It can o... Read Full Story

Sex and the City Dating Quiz Get your free customized Sex and the City Dating Type & Love Advice Report to help you on the road to love. Is your love life more like Carrie’s, Samantha’s, Charlotte’s or Miranda’s? Click Here to find out now. Read Full Story

Hi, Wanted to alert you that my PBS Pledge Special will start airing again in August! Saturday, August 1st in Tulsa & Oklahoma City @ 1:30 CT on KOEDDT2 & KETAD2. Plus, numerous airings in Washington DC on WHUT, including August 8 @ 12:30 PM, the 14th @ 10:30 PM & the 15th at 11 AM. Watch for it and be my guest in a front-row seat at a dynamic, practical and inspirational talk, the Finding Your Own True Love Program. Learn about the single most important thing you can d... Read Full Story

I am so excited to tell you about a great romantic Love in 90 Days story featured in a full-page article in the August 3 Woman’s World!! Pick it up on the newstand now and on page 40 you can read all about how Jo-Ann McKeon, a 52 year old divorcee reconnected with her Mr. Right after watching my PBS Pledge Special and reading Love in 90 Days. Jo-Ann realized that when you are dating the three key questions to ask about any guy are: Is He Crazy About You? Is He Willing to Grow? &... Read Full Story

Here is intriguing info on the “OKay to Kiss” Breath Test, by guest blogger Gavin Nachbar: Ahh the dreaded breath check. Whether it’s the, “Here, how does my breath smell?” friend check, or the puff into your cupped hands check, one way or another, keeping tabs on your breath throughout a date has become a long practiced art form. For those daters, though, who were never able to master the breath check, have no fear, the OkayToKiss kit is here. Scientists Mel Rosenberg and Dr. Nir... Read Full Story

This Tuesday I was on the Today Show with Woman’s Day Magazine Health Editor, Amy Brightfield discussing, marriage and if there really is a happily ever after. Woman’s Day and AOL Living surveyed more than 35,000 women to find out how they feel about their husbands and marriages. The results? Wedded bliss isn’t always [...] Read Full Story

This Tuesday I was on the Today Show with Woman’s Day Magazine Health Editor, Amy Brightfield discussing, marriage and if there really is a happily ever after. Woman’s Day and AOL Living surveyed more than 35,000 women to find out how they feel about their husbands and marriages. The results? Wedded bliss isn’t always so blissful. Click here to watch the segment. The survey said that 72% of these women have considered leaving their husbands.This result is not surprising to me. A... Read Full Story