swinginpixie

Most people seem to agree that a swinger is one who engages in sexual activity with someone other than their mate with the consent of their mate.   You can look around the web and see variations of that basic definition swinging .  By definition, swinging isn’t limited only to couples swapping partners as many people try to suggest.  However, if you’ve been around long enough, it doesn’t take long before you’ll meet people who have their own idea of what swinging REALLY is and what it’s not... Read Full Story

Every now and then, I just have to say… Kasidie ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!!  Seriously, people, sign up and check out the best site for recreational sex, travel, and friends.  I love Kasidie! Read Full Story

I was asked recently why I don’t like to chat online.  Well, there are many reasons I don’t, especially with people I haven’t met.  First, I just don’t have a lot of free time, so I let hubby take care of setting up the dates, chatting, and reviewing online profiles.  Second, it’s so easy to make a connection with someone via chatting only to find out that the pics they have on their profile aren’t even close to reality and, thus, you’re left disappointed upon meeting them.  I used to chat a... Read Full Story

We had a discussion with some friends about our experiences and we started kicking around which is better:  friends with benefits or one night stands.  It was an interesting discussion because we’ve experienced and enjoyed both.  After some thought, I decided it would make for decent article. Personally, I’ve always been very spontaneous with lifestyle activities, which is why I loved the club and party scene so much.  For me, it’s the aura, the dancing, sexual vibe and, probably most... Read Full Story

It’s story time!  LOL! Once upon a time, we were at the Velvet Curtain, a lifestyle club in Dallas, with a hot couple that we’d had gotten to know really well over the past several weeks and had played with them many times.  We hung out, did some dancing, blah, blah, blah, and eventually found ourselves naked with them in a very small room (only big enough for a couple mattresses and a love seat).  There was only room enough for a couple people to come in and out, and it wasn’t meant to be... Read Full Story

Hey girl! I’m having a problem. We’re still somewhat new but we’ve done many soft and full swaps and we’ve both come to be very comfortable with couples. I don’t feel much jealousy at all either in the moment or afterwards. My husband really wants a FMF threesome and I just feel weird. There have been a few times when, while with a couple, the other girl and I pleasured my husband while the other husband briefly left the room to get something to drink or whatever. I’ll just say it…. I felt... Read Full Story

Dear Pixie, We’ve been at this for a while now, and we’re on a few different websites.  We email people a very polite note like, “Hi.  We saw your profile and would like to meet you for drinks sometime”, and 8 out of 10 times we don’t get a response of any sort.  We only email people with certifications/validations, so we know they are real.  In addition, we have been stood up by 14 couples in six months (all real), most which never bothered to call us ahead of time and never contacted us... Read Full Story

Hi, Pixie – I am enjoying your blog. My boyfriend of 3 years — 11 years older than me — and I had a great deal of fun swinging. He and his ex-wife had been in the lifestyle, and after a lot of thought, I said I would try it with him. I considered it to be the most intimate thing I had ever done — and still do — and I really trusted our commitment to each other. Fast forward, and simply put..for reasons unrelated to the lifestyle and, really, just his own fears about unrelated things, he left... Read Full Story

We just found this link to a study that was done on swingers and thought it was very interesting.  Here is the abstract: The results of a national on-line survey of 1092 swingers are discussed. Questions from the General Social Survey are used to compare political, social, and sexual attitudes of swingers with the general population in the U.S. Measures of marital and general life satisfaction from the G.S.S. are also used to compare the groups. A preliminary attempt is also made to... Read Full Story

WOW!  Did my last series, My First MFM Experience, ever stir up some interest!  [LOL]  I got flooded with emails from many different sites asking me if I would do a MFM again, what I was looking for, and a great deal of junk mail from guys who just don’t get it.  So, I thought I’d spare myself some time and write a blog on exactly what I’m looking for in a guy for a potential future MFM experience.  Hopefully, this article will help guys understand what many couples and girls value when it... Read Full Story