Just to be Clear

My ex thinks the time I have given him alone with the children (I’ve been generous in the evenings) means the children and I don’t have a good relationship. JUST TO BE CLEAR - I give him that time alone as a courtesy because I spend ALL DAY LONG with them without him around and I wanted him to have a chance to be with them without the tension of THE TWO OF US being in the same room together. AND because Olaf has, in the past, said and done very hurtful things TO ME AND TO LUKE I try to avoid this by spending AS LITTLE TIME AS POSSIBLE in his presence.

If he has told you this in conversations - please note it is because he doesn’t know what I do during the day with the children. He is greatly mistaken if he thinks I have no bond with the children, as he stated this evening in my conversation with him. I am their MOM and I’m a DAMN GOOD mom at that.