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How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You Again

Mon, 1 Jul 2008 05:03:00 GMT

posted by magicofmakingup

Here is something that you guys might have heard of before. Girls LOVE romance! If you want to make them fall and fall hard, you have to ride up to them like their knight in shining armour. So what if they have dumped you recently and right now they even HATE you? Well, as you know, there is a very thin line between love and hate. If they vehemently despise you for whatever reason right now, take that as still a GOOD sign.

Here is what you need to do to make your ex girlfriend or any woman fall in love with you:

Be confident, confident and confident! Girls love confident men who know what they want and takes ACTION to get it. If you want her, go all out dramatic and crazy to show you want her. This does NOT mean acting like a drama queen and crying and begging them to come back. This is NOT confidence.

Give not a good apology, but an AMAZING apology. You can not expect to simply say ‘I’m sorry, you are the love of my life’ and all will be forgiven. Put a lot of thought into your apology. Do something really creative but most importantly from the bottom of your heart. You need to be extremely genuine and honest. If a simple note or simply apologizing in person will not do. It’s time to get theatrical. Send her dozens and dozens of flowers (if she likes flowers that is), show her you love her in front of 1000s of people (just make sure you know she won’t get too embarrassed and hate you for it). You get the picture. Obviously you know your girl best, so think of something especially for HER.

Obviously even if your spell is working on her by this point, you still can not expect the relationship to last unless you deal with what the initial issues were that broke up the relationship in the first place. You and her need to have a nice talk about it and understand you BOTH need to put the effect into making the relationship work again. See a counsellor or professional if you must, but do something instead of falling back into old routines.

If you have tried apologizing and showing her great gestures of love but she still resists, it’s time to back off just a little bit. At least in front of her eyes anyway. Ease off contact for a few weeks to give her space. Make sure thought that you use this time to work on yourself. Work out, eat healthy, take care of yourself mentally and physically, and make sure all your friends and her friends WITNESS this. Word will get back to her and this will make her curious.

Start dating and socializing. Get yourself out there and have fun. You’re not trying to get her jealous although you might, but you should never do it DELIBERATELY you know what I mean? Just enjoy yourself during this time. DON’T however sleep around if you still want your ex back. If she wants to come back, she might not like the fact you slept with 10 other girls right after the break up.

Will these work for you? Nothing will do it if you don’t do anything. Of course I know not many men WOULD do it because they can’t get over themselves and feel like it’s not in their personality to show massive signs of affection. But really that’s what girls want to see. Girls all secretly want a ‘real life’ knight that won’t care how silly or dumb they look just to show them how much they love them. I hope you find the inner knight within you.

How to Win Your Ex Back, No Matter the Situation updated Tue Jul 1 2008 5:47 pm CDT

Mon, 1 Jul 2008 23:47:58 GMT

posted by magicofmakingup
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Get Ex Back: How to Bring Back the Passion

Mon, 1 Jul 2008 00:58:52 GMT

posted by magicofmakingup

One of the common issues that couples deal with is the loss of passion and spark. It’s easy to fall into a routine and become comfortable. Some people get so comfortable they are blinded by how emotionally unhealthy a relationship may be. If your ex has backed out of this relationship and you are certain there is no one in the waiting. This is a massive sign that they have been emotionally unhappy for a very long time.

It is not easy to admit sometimes love isn’t always enough. We can all fall in love with someone, but whether they are right for us is another matter all together. If your ex has emotionally checked out then it may be hard to bring them back. Not unless you change dramatically.

The trick however is that you must not change for someone else. You need to do it for yourself. The sad part is change isn’t instantaneous and often it can take years to really change. Some people never do because they are so stuck in a rut.

You need to address whether your partner still feels for you anymore. If they have completely moved on emotionally, you may need to consider moving on as well. However if they still hold some feelings towards you, you may still have a chance.

Communicate with them if you can to discover what is really missing for them. You need to be committed in helping the relationship grow and change. Just think of a relationship like a child; when it is young they grow a lot and very quickly but once they get older, their growth slows down a lot. This is not what you want. You need to grow together, encourage each other and share your journey together.

How often do you do activities you both enjoy together? Do you invite them into doing things that you enjoy? For example if you’re passionate about biking, do you ask your partner to bike with you? Sometimes it’s good to get them involved no matter if you think it might bore them. They may simply appreciate the offer.

Add a dash of spontaneity into your life and try to mix up your weekly activities. Try something new every week if you can. Not only does it get you out of the house, it will distract your mind and you get to meet new people as well. Learn and discover a whole lot during this period. Even if your ex is not around, you will feel a whole lot better about yourself.

Remember little bits of sweet gestures throughout the day are much better than one major one every now and then. The way to keep the passion going is to never stop wooing your partner. Try to be flirty and playful and do things without them expecting.

The secret to keeping the passion going is to consider each day with your partner as if it’s your last.

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How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Sun, 30 Jun 2008 04:21:41 GMT

posted by exback
If you have just broken up and want to get your ex girlfriend back then don't despair. It can be done so long as you don't panic and calm yourself down.

This is key to learning how to get your ex girlfriend back. Once you have completed this stage it makes the rest of the process a whole lot easier. When you step back from the situation and analyze things objectively then you begin to see it is a problem just like any other that needs solving.

Now, tell your ex you agree with the break and walk away. Odd as it may seem this will gain you a lot of respect and will put you in a favorable position for future contact. From here you need to work on the rest of your plan. you have to think about what went wrong, is it worth continuing and you need to restore your confidence in yourself.

Don't contact your ex again too soon. This will be a disaster. We all want what we can't have and this is the beginning to making your ex think she was wrong to break up with you. Sow the seeds of doubt in her mind by starving her of attention.

If you go chasing after her and try to smother her with affection you will look desperate in here eyes. This is not how to get your ex girlfriend back. This will only drive her further away.

Wait a month and if she hasn't contacted you by then, you will contact here and you will have planned exactly what to say and what to do.

How to Move On When Ex Doesn’t Love You Anymore

Thu, 27 Jun 2008 13:36:14 GMT

posted by magicofmakingup

What do you do when your ex just dumped you out of nowhere and said they didn’t love you anymore? The unfortunate among us will have experienced such heartbreaking news and it is perhaps one of the most painful experiences you will ever have to go through.

At this point your whole world feels like it has crashed on you. You have no appetite for anything and even the things you loved to do feel so meaningless and stupid now. How could your ex abandon you like this? When you have given so much of yourself?

First you need to stop putting any blame on anyone, especially yourself. You feel rejected as it is, there is no need to beat yourself up even more. It is also very likely that the break up had absolutely nothing to do with you. Sometimes the person breaking up is the one with the main issues. In this case if they say it isn’t you, then believe that it really ISN’T. They are probably just as confused as you are.

The absolute worse thing you can do is beg for forgiveness and ask them to take you back. This is not the time to be acting desperate. Whatever their reason for breaking up, it is likely they did it to relief the pain they were going through themselves. It is best to agree with the break up and try to heal yourself in your own space.

How do you move on? You need to occupy yourself with different activities. Go out with some old friends you haven’t seen in a while. Indulge yourself in a certain hobby or activity that you missed while you were in the relationship. Spend time listening to other people’s problems and try to help them out instead of always talking about your own.

It will hurt a lot for the first week or even the first month. But the pain will eventually get better. As much as it is far from the truth right now. Have faith you WILL recover from it.

At this time, it is recommended that you cut all contact from your ex. This means even if they want to remain friends and call you everyday. You need to put your foot down and let them know firmly you need to be alone right now. As hard as it will be, staying in contact with your ex right now will only prolong the healing process and perhaps even stop you from moving on altogether. Let your ex know as nicely as possible why you shouldn’t speak for a while. At least until you feel you are ready to face them without breaking down again.

Take this opportunity to rearrange the furniture in your house, or do some housecleaning. Take the dog out for a long walk or take them to the beach. Get a new haircut, go shopping, listen to your favourite music and watch some funny movies. Get out and enjoy life. Try to keep in mind that although this relationship is over, you are at least one step closer to finding the true love of your life.

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