Sometimes you jut need to hold, sip, ok chug, a cold drink and say WTF~ For those of you have been following my blog you'll remember that there's been a guy I've dated off & on who wasn't ready to date seriously because of the fall out from his divorce. The last few times we've seen each other I know I've been clear in saying that I was interested in dating him more seriously whenever he was ready. His typical response was that he wasn't there yet, and didn... Read Full Story

Working in a specialty running store presents me with the opportunity to meet at least 50 people a day with whom I have at least one interest in common - running. Most of the time, I enjoy the encounter, provide excellent service, fit them with the right shoe and send them on their way. Occasionally, as someone walks out the door, I want to follow behind, tugging on their shirt hem and beg them to take me with them. Either they're simply gorgeous and I could care less what they have t... Read Full Story

Hi Everyone~ I'm back for my first post after a long drawn out adjustment to my move. Life has taken many twists and turns for me this past month - many positive ones but they're causing me to step back and reconsider my grad school undertakings and possibly move in a new direction. In turn, I may be reversing my recent move from my house into a small apartment. It's a bit unorthodox, but I'm trying to just go with it. On the dating front, I have to say that things have n... Read Full Story

The past few days have been rough~ I've moved from a house to a tiny apartment, my dog has had her butt kicked in a fight and required a vet vist (with money I didn't have) and today I had one of those "thanks it was great, but I just didn't feel the spark" meet and greets. I'm left feeling depleted financially and emotionally and completely at the bottom of the ego totem pole. I walked into this coffee date feeling less than glamorous. I had to take my dog to ... Read Full Story

So, here's my first attempt at a video rant~ It has very little to do with dating but it still needs to be said! I know, I look terrible - I had just come in from a run! Read Full Story

Here's a fetish I haven't come across in the online dating scene before - tickling. I came across this profile: " I want to meet women interested in tickling.I also love phone sex.I am always horney and looking for fun.I am very fit and consirded attractive.I would like to get to know anybody for some good raunchy fun.Tickling is my fetish,I love to tickle and to be tickled. " (He obviously didn't read my post about the use of spell-check in composing your dating per... Read Full Story

I was working on my mac just now and hit the “function” “T” buttons to add a new tab in order to open a new window. Instead, I hit “function” “Y” - of course, nothing happened, but it hit me - wouldn’t it be so much easier if we had a “function” “why” button for our life? If something bad happenned, we could just hit “Function Why” - and the reason would be revealed. If we were lonely and it felt as if... Read Full Story

Love hibernation like butterfly in cocoon yearning to emerge Possibly related posts: (automatically generated)Haiku Friday #2 - Trying to TransformCocoons Are Here! Read Full Story

My friend Fitz over at Toilet Scribble recently asked his readers what they would prefer a juicy steak or sex. As predicted, the testosterone-driven responses poured in. Surprisingly, there were a few guys suggesting they might prefer the steak! I decided to pose the question to my readers, but with a twist for the women. If given the choice between sex and an amazing piece of chocolate (let's say, Godiva, or Gevalia or even chocolate cheesecake) - which would you choose. Now, you... Read Full Story

Hey everyone~ I'm back from a short hiatus from posting. I've been caught up in emptying out my house and moving to a much smaller apartment. It's one of the sacrifices I'm making so I can continue to be a grad student~ So, I have to admit that I fell into a trap that I swore I wouldn't fall into. My friend Fitz regularly blogs about douchebags on his blog Toilet Scribble. So, I should know better and should be able to spot one a mile away. I have to admit, though... Read Full Story