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I do my best to live in the moment that is front of me—to appreciate what is before me. Most challenging are the times I find myself delayed at an airport, trapped in a conversation that I don’t want to have, or wanting to be doing something else. I believe a disconnect occurs when we have a future orientation. Yes, I understand the future orientation intimately. I lived there for many, many years. I’m questioning, now, if I still do? I’m not quite sure how to separate what’s happening now... Read Full Story

But Something Much Better: ME It was something Monique Marvez, author of Not Skinny, Not Blonde, said that got me going on this Not Barbie: Not Married to Ken kick. It was so true. Just like Monique, I always wanted to be skinny. I always wanted to be blonde. The real truth: I always wanted to be Barbie! Barbie had it all. She was beautiful, skinny, blonde and rich. She had a great house, great clothes, great car and always attended fabulous parties—at the beach, at the hotel. And I’m sure I... Read Full Story

Last night I watched The Family That Preys featuring Kathy Bates as a socialite and well-to-do Charlotte Cartwright. Near the end of the movie one of the characters (Alice) played by Alfre Woodward gives the eulogy at Charlotte's funeral. Alice repeated something she often heard Charlotte say to her, "Are you living or just existing?" I realized the minute I heard it. "Oh dear. Here comes an important message. Are you listening?" I hope you'll give this question some thought. Maybe, for you... Read Full Story

This is a repeat, but indicative of the direction I am headed... Several years ago , I made the decision to develop a greater awareness of my intuitive nature. Although I have always been highly sensitive to the feelings of others, I wasn’t born with an elevated ability to interpret my intuitive whispers. It took practice and time. The key was trusting myself and acting on the messages I received. The next move is to make a pledge. “I promise myself that I will take action based on the... Read Full Story

On the drive home from our vacation, we witnessed a beautiful sight! This was taken with my Blackberry phone. Allyn Evans, Professional Speaker and Writer Toastmaster, CTM (www.allynevans.com) Authored "Grab the Queen Power: Live Your Best Life!" Read Full Story

Ever read one of those life-changing books? While in the early stages of trying to write my latest book I did. Thanks to my dad’s sister, my dear Aunt Kay. She kept insisting I read The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles by Steven Pressfield. Pressfield, turns out had written many books—at least one of them was a best seller. Remember The Legend of Bagger Vance ? No matter. I wasn’t the least bit interested. I knew how to overcome resistance. I had... Read Full Story

While sitting on the beach last week in Princess Cays, Bahamas, I turned to my mother and said, "Dreams really do come true." In December 2008, I couldn't stop thinking about my desire to travel. As luck would have it, a good friend had just recently met Daniel Hall. She shared his contact information with me and I downloaded his ebook about cruising for free a few days later. I followed Daniel's directions and before I knew it I was approved to sail with Princess. By May 2009, I had my trip... Read Full Story

Allyn Evans www.allynevans.com Email me! Allyn Evans, Professional Speaker and Writer Toastmaster, CTM (www.allynevans.com) Authored "Grab the Queen Power: Live Your Best Life!" Read Full Story

It's official. I have been invited back to cruise again. My next trip will be in January 2011. After being without my desktop for three weeks (can I say "computer virus!"), I finally found the opportunity to download more pictures. So before closing this chapter of my blog, enjoy the show! My favorite beach: Governor's Island, Grand Turk. Another fun time was on Princess Cays (Eleuthera Island). See our ship in the distance. We were dropped off and picked up by "tender" boats. We visited the... Read Full Story

Ice, snow and more snow. Still have power! Since the ice has disappeared, think we'll be okay for this round. :) Allyn Evans http://www.allynevans.com/ Email me! Allyn Evans, Professional Speaker and Writer Toastmaster, CTM (www.allynevans.com) Authored "Grab the Queen Power: Live Your Best Life!" Read Full Story